But, fortunately, he got a satisfied one on both sides.
Girls who go on blind dates are unwilling to send messages on their own initiative. This conclusion is too absolute, there are many, but not "all".
The main reasons are:
First, you are just her spare tire.
Perhaps, this girl who went on a blind date had a boyfriend before, and the two were still connected; perhaps, this girl who went on a blind date had a formal boyfriend, but her family strongly opposed it.
Under family pressure, she can only accept the arrangement of blind dates. If she meets her own satisfaction, she will say goodbye to the previous relationship completely. Perhaps, she came to the blind dates because of the pressure of her parents.
So, parents are very concerned about blind dates and even are very eager to marry their daughter out. However, the daughter herself is not in a hurry, and she feels that it is better to have nothing than to be too much. My parents urged me to chat with my blind date first, but there was nothing left. Anyway, she didn't have the intention to chat with the blind date man on her own initiative.
Second, she hasn't considered it well yet.
My cousin used to meet a boy. The girl had already reached the time to discuss marriage with a boy, but because of the issue of the bride price, the woman temporarily raised the price, which made the man angry and refused to marry. Because of this, the two parted ways.
But the two young people still have feelings. Soon, they got together again, and they both avoided their parents. When their parents asked, they had broken up long ago. Here, their parents introduced my brother to go on a blind date with her. My cousin was working in Shenzhen at the time and drove more than 1,000 kilometers back to Hunan for a blind date.
The parents of the two families almost didn't call each other a relative, but after they met, the girl was always lukewarm. My cousin thought at first that the girl might be more reserved and would get familiar with her after chatting for a while. But often he sent more than ten of them, and the girl replied, and it was still very short, such as "um", "good" and so on.
More than a month later, my cousin asked the blind date girl directly. The blind date girl had to tell the truth and didn't really break up with her boyfriend. Now she was because her family was forced to go on a blind date, so she had not considered how to deal with this matter.
Third, parents will give many instructions to never take the initiative.
Parents who go on blind dates generally hope that the blind date will be good to girls in the future. In their thoughts, girls should be reserved and not take the initiative, so that boys can cherish them more.
From another perspective, if a girl who can agree to her parents’ blind dates, she must be very filial and obeys her parents’ arrangements, otherwise she would definitely not agree to the blind date.
Therefore, the girl who is instructed to blind dates must obey her parents.
Fourth, due to personality.
Girls have introverted and extroverted personalities, while most blind date girls are introverted. Perhaps it is precisely because of their introverted personality that she has fewer opportunities to contact boys, so the probability of being able to fall in love is much smaller.
Even if she is on a blind date now, she will not actively contact the boy and send messages. This kind of girl who belongs to the slow-warming type will easily succeed in blind dates as long as she enters her heart.
Most of the above four reasons cannot escape the above four reasons. If it is the latter two, then you should work hard and use your power to the forefront, and contact us frequently, from being unfamiliar to being familiar with and then to falling in love. I believe it is only a matter of time.
However, if it is the first two, I advise you to turn back and forth.
My cousin used to be on blind dates to this type of person. No matter whether my cousin showed off his muscles or acted cute, he would pay his respects early and he would not work. In the end, he chose to give up.
This object now belongs to online dating, and the two of them quickly met each other. In my cousin's words, they finally found a object that understands me and doesn't have to let him be a dog licking.
also wishes you good luck and find your favorite partner as soon as possible!
