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Happiness is a kind of ability that requires you to do your best to get it just like finding a treasure.
Management of marriage is different from love. The pressure and challenges you have to face are often more. Love will gradually disappear with the boredom and triviality of life.
Every relationship is not easy. You need patience and wisdom so that your relationship will not create barriers.
No matter how unforgettable your love was, as long as these three states occur between husband and wife, most of the marriage will end.
01: Refute each other, do not give in, do not tolerate, and do not tolerate
Luo Xiang Teacher said: "The important sign of a person's maturity is that there are seemingly opposite views in his mind at the same time."
Mature couples in their hearts can communicate and tolerate well even when they get along with each other's ideas.
So, no matter how much trouble you encounter in life, your love can be protected better, and your feelings will not be separated easily.
Unfortunately, there are many young couples in life who love each other very much when they are in love and have experienced the most romantic time.
But at that time, everyone was very young and immature enough. After marriage, they encountered conflicts and quarrels and began to refute each other, not giving in or tolerating.
Once this state of getting along, your marriage will most likely come to an end.
What a woman needs most in love is understanding and care. What she wants is not a reasonable home.
After a man enters marriage, he is very different from what he looked before marriage.
They just want to be themselves and will no longer consider their partner's feelings. As long as their wife makes some requests, the other party will immediately refute.
When all love is consumed, your marriage will be completely over. Even without the addition of a third party, this relationship cannot continue.
02: Only considering one's own interests, not considering each other
Zhou Shan (pseudonym) and her husband are introduced by relatives. Most of the people who came from blind dates will not have too deep feelings. Everyone just depends on each other's conditions.
They decided to get married after meeting for the third time. For Zhou Shan, as long as her future husband can meet her needs, she can live a good life.
In the first two years after getting married, my life was pretty good. My husband has a car and a house, and he will give her three thousand living expenses every month.
But later my mother-in-law got sick and had two surgeries. At that time, my husband wanted to get the 180,000 yuan gift from their family before.
Zhou Shan couldn't agree, and her parents had already used the money, so they bought a car for their younger brother.
In the end, my husband can only borrow money from his friend to perform surgery on his mother.
The mother-in-law is in poor health after being discharged from the hospital and needs to be properly conditioned. Her husband will give Zhou Shan an extra 1,500 yuan of living expenses every month.
also told her that she must buy some nutritious things for her mother-in-law to eat. Zhou Shan said it was fine, but in fact she saved all the money and helped her mother's family.
My husband has been on a business trip for more than half a month. Zhou Shan only eats vegetables and porridge for her mother-in-law every day, and her health is getting worse and worse.
In Zhou Shan's heart, the most important thing is that her family is, and she does not have much feelings for her husband and mother-in-law.
If someone only thinks about their own interests and never thinks about each other, then the marriage is destined to come to an end.
Not long after, my husband saw Zhou Shan's character clearly and immediately filed for divorce. Their relationship lasted for less than four years.
03: A man has no life in his eyes, and no matter how tired he is, he will not feel sorry for
I really love your man, and he will always pay attention to your needs after marriage.
When you are busy in the kitchen, even if he is very tired, he will do housework with you.A caring husband will feel sorry for your efforts and do not want you to be unhappy and wronged after marriage.
If your relationship is always in this state of caring, your feelings will become sweeter and sweeter.
However, after some couples get married for many years, men will become cold in attitude towards you.
There is no way to see life in his eyes, and he will not feel distressed no matter how hard you work.
Wang Ran (pseudonym) has been married to her husband for ten years. During the holidays, she will feel very nervous and will definitely suffer from insomnia the day before.
Because there will be more than a dozen guests at home, she has to be busy in the kitchen until midnight.
Every time Wang Ran asked her husband to go into the kitchen to help, he always looked like he was not concerned about himself and could not see any work in his eyes.
Even if he was asked to go downstairs to remove the garbage, he would push him three times and four times.
Wang Ran is already a woman with a good temper, and she endured it if she could.
Once she worked overtime until one o'clock in the morning before going home. When she entered the house, she found that no one had cleaned up the dishes on the dining table.
She was so tired that she didn't deal with it. The next day was just the weekend, and Wang Ran had to work overtime, but her husband didn't need it, so she told the other party to remember to wash the dishes.
But two days have passed, and as long as Wang Ran doesn't do it, no one will solve it.
She was completely disappointed with her marriage and had to divorce her husband.
As long as these three states occur, the marriage will probably end.
Some details can be avoided in time. As long as you still love, don’t let your relationship be irreversible.
Usually give your partner more care and do a few more things, so that love can continue.
