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Decent is everyone's pursuit of life, and happiness is everyone's yearning.
Life is a stage play. Some people perform on stage and some people watch off stage. The performers work hard to express themselves, but the viewers may not necessarily understand the emotions that the people on stage really want to express.
The sadness and joy between people is destined to be incompatible, so don’t expect your feelings to be empathized by the other party at any time.
Sadness or joy are just a kind of emotion. Keeping one's emotions is keeping one's life well.
As a human being, you must understand that when you are alone, keep your heart, don’t be anxious, keep your mouth, don’t speak nonsense when you are alone.
The ancients said: "People cannot be secret, but secrets will lead to doubts." It is never a good thing to get too close to people, and the closer you get, the more likely it is to have rifts.
people are middle-aged, don’t get too close to the following four types of people. Be careful that you will suffer the consequences in the end.
An old classmate who is not familiar with
Zhou Guoping said: "Loneliness is a human destiny. Love and friendship cannot be eradicated, but it can be comforted." After a person reaches a certain age, he will feel inexplicably lonely in his heart. Nostalgia for the past will add a filter to his memory, and he will gradually be filled with emotions for the people and things in the past.
For most people, old classmates are a microcosm of the beauty of youth. No matter how ordinary the relationship was at that time, they would always be full of affection when they met again after many years.
But you must be sober enough to ensure that you will not fall into the trap in false feelings.
Old classmates who are not familiar with each other are best not to meet again, and even if they meet, don’t trust each other too much. After all, there are few purposeless feelings in the adult world, and there is a reason behind everything that everyone does.
The person I have met for many years is no longer the person I remember. The years can change not only one person's appearance, but also have thoughts and three views.
Old classmates who have not been in contact for many years usually cannot meet with each other.
Colleagues in the past unit
Do you know what a colleague is?
The so-called colleagues are people who work together, or they can be said to be partners with specific goals in a specific period of time.
The relationship between colleagues may be able to get along well, but it is really difficult to really become friends. After all, there is only competition in the workplace, and partners are just temporary groups.
When working in the same unit, the relationship can still maintain superficial stability. Once you resign from the unit and have no common things to be busy with, you will return to the strangeness of passers-by.
After resigning, don’t get too close to colleagues in the past, or compete in the industry. If you are too close to each other or you are using them for too close contact.
Getting along with people, it is important to know how to keep a distance. For most people, work is just a tool for making a living. For former colleagues are also passers-by who have been with them during the process of making a living.
There are too many passers-by in life. They come and go in a hurry, so there is no need to be nostalgic or missed. Avoid causing trouble for yourself.
The opposite sex with ambiguous words
Although the best period of love is the ambiguous period, it is really unconscious to play ambiguous in middle age.
The beauty of youth will never come back once it goes away. People must live a clear life after middle age. When facing the ambiguous words, the opposite sex either changes the topic or stays away directly.
The most common pig-killing scam in society uses the emotions between people. Love can bring people's mood to the clouds, or pull a person's rest of his life into the abyss.
Do what age you are at. Don’t pretend to be old or young. Stabilization is the soberness that middle-aged people should have.
People who are far away from verbal ambiguity are not really stupid in the adult world. Ambiguous always has a purpose, either feelings or money, and even more so, cheat both feelings and money.
It is never a happy thing to have an ambiguous relationship. After all, the word ambiguous itself represents uncertainty.
When people reach middle age, don’t be moved by the opposite sex with ambiguous words. Please remember that understanding the true heart depends on actions.
Friends who are passionate about gossip
Jiang Fangzhou said: "In this era, culture has become a thing that seems very noisy but is actually very silent." People who love gossip are never steady. Not only can they not control their own mouths, but they often regret others.
, behind the scenes, are not the acts of disrespectful people, but also a manifestation of one's own cultivation.
If someone is keen on gossip, you must keep a safe distance from it, because you cannot predict that one day you will become a "big melon" passed down by word of mouth.
Stay away from people who love gossip and restore your life to peace and tranquility.
language is a tool for communication between people. Don’t let your words become a weapon to hurt others. At the same time, you must keep an appropriate distance from those who hold the "weapon".
People who are keen on gossip are usually curious about other people's lives, but this curiosity often creates huge contradictions of right and wrong. If you want to stay away from right and wrong, you have to stay away from them.
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