There is a saying on the Internet: "If you are in love with someone, you need to overcome all difficulties and feel that the whole world is obstructing you, I tell you that the world is here to save you."
is like the recent hot Wang Baochuan digging wild vegetable stems. When she was going to marry Xue Pinggui , whether it was her father Wang Yun, her second sister Wang Yinchuan , Wei Hu and Wei Bao, they tried every means to stop it. Although it is undeniable that these people have their own purposes, if Wang Baochuan was not blinded by love, she would rather break off the father-daughter relationship with her father and be kicked out of the house than marry Xue Pinggui, she would not end up with the wild vegetables that had been hard-working for 18 years and digging for 18 years.
What's even more sad is that she has been guarding the Han Kiln for 18 years and has been waiting for Xue Pinggui. However, when Xue Pinggui comes back, she already has a wife and a pair of children. Although Wang Baochuan is the original wife, she looks more like a third party.
She was the queen for only eighteen days and died. Not only because she had already dragged down her body for eighteen years, but also because the pillar of her life was her love, which made her heart feel ashamed. Instead of staying in the position of the queen in embarrassment and watching Xue Pinggui and Dai Zhan and their children have fun, it is better to leave!
What should I do if I have been blinded by love, married, jumped into the fire pit, and lived a very unsatisfactory life? At this time, you have paid the price for your mistakes and been punished, but as long as you don’t give up on yourself, no one can give up on you.
jumping into the fire pit is not the most terrifying thing. What is terrible is giving up on yourself, complaining about yourself, and losing the courage to stop loss of in time. If you are blind once, you will be saved, but if you are obsessed with and still have fantasies about the man who has let you suffer all the grievances, then you will be really out of salvation.
As Russell said: "If marriage breaks down, divorce will also be destroyed, because divorce is a system that exists because of marriage, and divorce is the safety valve of marriage."
"Yuanyuan, your mother and I are already at the door of your community. Don't be afraid, parents will come to preside over you justice."
Seeing the news about my father, Pan Yuanyuan immediately wiped away her tears and ran out. When she learned that her father-in-law and mother-in-law were coming, she was always there to scold her wife for being pretentious and urged her to go and wash the pot and dish. She was also panicked.
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Pan Yuanyuan ran all the way and arrived at the entrance of the community. She not only saw her parents, but also saw her uncle, aunt, cousin and sister-in-law, and a gentleman she didn't know.
"Yuanyuan, let me introduce you to my college classmate. He is now a lawyer and is responsible for handling divorce matters. He has strong professional ability. Have you made up your mind to divorce? If you decide, let this friend of my brother be your lawyer and help you get the custody of your child and the property you deserve."
Seeing that my cousin brought the lawyer, Pan Yuanyuan cried again. Under the comfort of her mother, Pan Yuanyuan forced herself to wipe away her tears. In front of her husband who chased her and was so anxious that she apologized to her father-in-law and mother-in-law, she clearly announced: "Yes, I just want to divorce, and I will never regret it."
Hearing her daughter's words, Pan Yuanyuan's father pushed her son-in-law away without hesitation and helped her daughter walk to her daughter's house. At this time, there were many family members, and eight of my husband's family were watching TV in the living room, talking and laughing, but there was still a mess on the dining table. It was not until she saw her in-laws coming that Pan Yuanyuan's in-laws realized something was wrong.
"Xiao Du, please guide my sister to write divorce agreement . I'll talk to my brother-in-law about how he and his family bully my sister."
Pan Yuanyuan's husband wanted to hold his wife and ask his wife to help explain, don't make a big deal. Pan Yuanyuan decisively threw away her husband and went into the room to draft a divorce agreement.
After a while, the divorce agreement was written, and my father took it over and patted it on the table, too lazy to explain to his son-in-law: "You don't have to talk nonsense, I only believe what my daughter said.Since my daughter has decided to divorce, let’s get together! A man who indulges his family to bully his wife and treats her as a free nanny is worthy of being my son-in-law? Think beautifully! "
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Pan Yuanyuan is 30 years old this year and is the only daughter in the family. She has been favored by her parents, grandparents and uncles since she was a child. Her family will always respond to her requests and has not let her suffer any pain.
The wealth of her original family has also created Pan Yuanyuan's willful and disobedient personality, especially in the major marriage. She is very stubborn and insists that her choice is the right one.
Although her parents and uncles are Mothers were persuading Pan Yuanyuan and telling her that they had contacted Pan Yuanyuan's favorite man many times and found that his parents were strong and that men were timid in front of their parents, afraid that they had the potential of a mama baby boy. They also inquired and found that the status of women in the man's family was not high. The man's mother was the free nanny for the whole family. She was worried that Pan Yuanyuan would suffer from grievances after marrying, but Pan Yuanyuan didn't listen.
"If I had the opportunity to travel through time, I must go back to when I was not married yet, slap myself hard and wake myself up. My parents love me so much, and my uncle love me too. They are not optimistic about the marriage. Why do I think I can marry? "
However, Pan Yuanyuan was crying and making a fuss at that time, and she wanted to marry her. In desperation, her parents had to help her. After getting married, Pan Yuanyuan realized that her lover seemed to have changed. The boyfriend who used to be careless and obedient to her was gone. Instead, as long as his parents glared at him, he would stand by his parents to accuse his wife of his ignorant and disobedient filial man.
"If I hadn't taken advantage of the time when I was pregnant, I was quarreling and making noise, and threatened to take me out, and forced him to move out, my life would have been even more messy. "
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Three months ago, Pan Yuanyuan gave birth to a son. This not only did not make her marriage stable, but her husband's heart was directed to his beautiful wife and young children, but instead made his in-laws more unscrupulous.
" They may think that my children have been given birth, and they dare not divorce, otherwise I would not think of taking the children away. So, my parents-in-law ran to my house every day under the banner of looking at my grandson, but they didn't help me take care of my son. They just watched me take care of my son while on maternity leave, and they even pointed at me and said that I didn't do it well here and there, so I ignored them. They went to my husband to file a complaint, and then the couple must have a big fight. "
Forget it, not only did my parents-in-law not take care of Pan Yuanyuan, but often came over to point fingers. They also stayed for a long time and asked Pan Yuanyuan to cook for them. After eating, they didn't even clean up the bowls and chopsticks, so they went back directly. The next day, which made Pan Yuanyuan exhausted.
"That day, the reason I decided to divorce was because they did too much, which made me feel that there was no hope for life if this continued. My parents-in-law came again and called other relatives. The nine people said they wanted to have a meal. They didn't go to the restaurant or eat at their own house. They came to me and kept me busy. What's even more annoying is that after I finished, I went to feed my son. When I was served, they all finished eating and left me a table of leftovers. In other words, I have no need to eat the dishes I have worked hard to cook, and I have to clean the pot and wash the dishes. "
Seeing that Pan Yuanyuan was really coming, her parents-in-law and husband were panicked and apologized in every way, hoping that Pan Yuanyuan would give up the idea of divorce. Pan Yuanyuan didn't look back and picked up her son and left. The mother-in-law wanted to get up to steal her grandson, but when she saw Pan Yuanyuan's father blocking the door, she had to admit defeat.
"I gave my husband a month deadline. If he still refused to divorce, then we had to go to court. ”
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Tor Hobbs once said: “Every time people violate their reason, they will be punished by their reason. A life without reason is like a wild horse that is out of control no matter what."
When you get married, you will be determined to act on your own, not listen to the advice you sincerely love and care about you, and insist on marrying someone you are not optimistic about by your parents, relatives and friends, which is against reason.
You are blinded by love, lost your mind, and dug a big hole for your life. The consequences may be that you are far from able to bear.
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