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Poem says: "Everyone sweeps away the snow in front of the door, don't worry about the frost on others."
People are old, don't be enthusiastic about everything and things anymore. You need to focus more energy on yourself.
Everyone is unique. We cannot control others, we can only control ourselves.
Therefore, smart elderly people are managing themselves and interacting with society in a healthy way.
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cares about being kind and does not care about right and wrong.
Confucius said: "There is a knowledge that there is something to be trapped, and the spirit is not as good as possible. Even if you have the most knowledge, thousands of people will plan it."
Everyone thinks that they are very smart and experienced, and have already seen through life. When encountering things, you have your own opinions and think that your opinions are the best.
When something is screwed up, many people will say that they should have listened to it for a long time. If it weren't for this, the result wouldn't be like that.
In fact, there are always things that a person’s wisdom cannot reach. Even gods will go astray and do unreasonable things.
When we think and study hard, we will gain a lot of wisdom, but we still cannot see through things in society. Therefore, as an elderly person, you must learn to be confused and smile.
My mother, when she just entered the city, she went shopping when she had nothing to do. When I meet an old man selling side dishes, I walk over and chat. My mother stubbornly believed that these elderly people were all poor and needed help. When she meets a beggar, she has to give her a few dollars. She doesn't believe these people, they are professional beggars or liars.
One day, my mother stood beside an old man selling vegetables and talked for a long time. The old man replied to : "If you don't buy vegetables, go home early. I still have to do business."
The mother always talks to herself, why no one understands her kindness?
There is a truth, and worries are there every day, but if you don’t pick them up, you will never be able to do so.
A lot of right and wrong were found by oneself. There is a little indifference between people. As the saying goes, the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water.
See the poor person, give me a smile; when you meet someone in need, help me. Then walk away quickly and don't "consider your well-being" too much. Everyone has their own way of living, and your concern is mostly "disturbance".
The environment we live in is complex. If we cannot see through and can’t figure it out, then don’t think about it. Right and wrong will not lead to ourselves.
Simple life starts with "simple mood".
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Be careful and don’t complain.
My old neighbor Uncle Zhang has thin hair and has to go to the barber shop for repairs twice a month.
When Uncle Zhang was middle-aged, he often went to a barber shop in a small alley. Because the price was cheap, three yuan for cutting hair was enough.
Perhaps because of not much income, the barber shop in the alley is closed. Uncle Zhang had to go to the barber shop on the street. After asking, it costs twenty yuan to cut your hair.
Later, Uncle Zhang retired and lived with his children. There are five or six barber shops around the community, but the prices are ridiculously high. It costs fifty yuan to cut your hair, and if you still have to massage your back, it costs seventy yuan.
In order to cover the wallet, Uncle Zhang walked several streets, asked about many stores, and solemnly decided to go to a barber shop five miles away, and apply for a membership card.
The cost of cutting hair is less, but Uncle Zhang consumes more time and effort. He always said, "What kind of world is this? Is this a cheating me?"
Uncle Zhang's son said, "Dad, you are not trying to make money, but finding an opportunity to take a walk every few days. Think about it, how many more streets can you walk and be healthy."
wakes up the dreamer. When people get old, they can compare shopping, go a long way, and make complaints because they are still healthy, so what are you not happy?
Anything, from another perspective, is very different. If you are so resentful, if you can say it carefully and think about it, it will become a good thing.
People are old, good words require inertial thinking.For example, if you always praise a child, if one day the child makes a mistake, you will still encourage him because you are used to this; if people interact with each other, you are used to saying "Thank you for your hard work, thank you", then you can "bluff out" the beauty.
"The disaster comes from the mouth, and diseases come from the mouth to the ". Take good care of your mouth and say fresh words as soon as you open your mouth, and your interpersonal relationships and mood will improve.
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Be good at seeing people with bad eyes, don’t look ugly.
Economist Tobin said: "Don't put all the eggs in the same basket."
Eggs that look similar on the outside actually need to be classified. For example, eggs in the mountains are more expensive; eggs in the farm are cheaper. The size of the egg also varies.
has been around for a long time, and we all have this idea - each generation is worse than the other. The young man nowadays has no spirit of hard work and has better family conditions and is used to enjoying the fruits of his life.
In fact, we have this habit - generalize from the side. When I see some phenomena, I think the whole society is like this.
For a while, " Tsinghua goddess" Yang Qian was loved by everyone because she became the Olympic champion. As a post-00s generation, she fully demonstrates her spirit of positive and hard work.
When she was eleven, she began to contact shooting training. From then on, we run at both the school and the training ground, and both sides must take into account. She regards every game as an opportunity to improve her own abilities.
When we see the ugly side of society, we immediately change our horizons, look at the positive energy in society, and look for different scenery.
should be relieved that when we grow old, society is innovating and there is a new green every year.
Similarly, our community has become clean and tidy because of someone's management; when looking at children, daughters, sons-in-law, they become mature in a quarrel; when looking at grandchildren, they are very naughty, but very smart.
has this view : Delicious vegetables grow in the sludge.
After seeing the sludge and then tasting the vegetables, even if you know more than half of the vegetables; looking at the sweat of farmers, it is even more valuable.
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The world is very good. If you think it is not good, it is most likely that you are not good.
has this sentence: "A person is over 60 years old, every part of the body must be reorganized." Therefore, be good at managing and don't assemble it incorrectly.
In addition to taking good intentions, mouth and eyes, you also need to take good care of your legs and exercise moderately; take good care of your body, pay attention to eating, drinking and health care; take good care of your brain, think more beautiful things; take good care of your work experience, and continue to contribute your spare heat to society; take good care of your own small home, and keep the environment clean...
Socrates said: "The only thing I know is that I know nothing."
Smart people are new every day, and they must understand the new world and face a new life.
manage yourself well, but in fact, manage the world well.
Author: Common people eat coarse food.
Follow my text and enter your heart.
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