A good match is very important for most people.
It will greatly affect the three views of two people. The ideas about many major events, even if the two get along very harmoniously at the moment, some deeply rooted concepts are difficult to change.
1. Hardware conditions are equal, and two people are more harmonious
This actually involves a lot, not only the basic economic conditions, but also includes: the status of both parents, the education, income, occupation, household registration, appearance and height of the two people.
For example, you are beautiful, he is handsome, he has a doctorate degree, and you are not bad, he is 180, and your height is just right with him...
The same hardware conditions, two people can live in harmony for a long time, with less conflicts.
2. Living habits and consumption concepts are similar
Economic conditions will indeed affect a person's views and horizons, and even every bit of daily life.
Different consumption concepts will lead to differences in daily expenses, purchase of large items, and travel.
For example, one wants to eat affordable food stalls, the other wants to eat luxurious French food. When buying clothes, one wants to be cost-effective and the other wants to be of high quality.
3. Two families get closer and harmonious
In a sense, marriage is also a combination of two families.
For some people, buying a house may require some help from their parents. When the child is born, both of them have to go to work, and they may also need the care of their parents. Therefore, many times, it is inseparable from the influence of each other's family.
Both families are similar, and their parents-in-law have similar views. If they have more understanding, they will have less conflicts.
4. The class circle is similar, the two are in the same pace
The match between the two is not only material, but also family culture, the class where the two are, the circle environment, etc.
The same family background and concept are easier to resonate, less conflicts, and consistent rhythm.
, the circles are not very different, everyone has similar ideas, and they can better manage the lives of two people.
5. The three concepts are the same, and there are fewer contradictions
Different portals and different growth environments have led to many deeply rooted concepts that are difficult to change. These will affect all aspects of the lives of both people in the future.
On the spiritual level, the things that each other pursues are different, and there are too many differences, and there are destined to be conflicts. Even if it is harmonious in a short period of time, problems will arise in a long period of time.
Two people have the same views, and many of the concepts of being a person and doing things are the same. Only by moving forward simultaneously can the relationship last for a long time.
