With the development of the times, women's status has become higher and higher. In the past, women's status at home was very low, so women must agree to some of the requirements put forward by men. When women need anything at home, women must stand up unshirkable.
When women have a higher status, in fact, many women still retain the traditional nature. When doing things, these women actually do not know how to refuse and tolerate them. Therefore, they are all a posture of eating berberine and living in this society.
Although sometimes we have to think about others, sometimes we have to think about ourselves and know how to refuse. Only in this way can we live a better life.
And those women who know how to refuse are often more favorable to men.
01.
Reject men's unreasonable requests
If this man gives women some requirements, then women must sort out these requirements. If there are some unreasonable requirements here, then women can no longer agree to men's requirements.
In many cases, when men make some demands for women, women should not eat coptis chinensis if they are mute, and suffer from the pain themselves. Sometimes we should know how to resist.
Then some women will encounter such a thing:
The parents in their home are sick, but their husbands do not allow women to see their parents. In this case, women are actually very sad. Some women choose to be tolerant, so they don’t look at their parents. This behavior is obviously wrong.
When a woman encounters such a thing, you must know how to refute the man. Then when you refute the man, at a certain time, the man may think that a woman like you is not good.
Women, when a man can calm down and think about it, you will feel that you are a very filial woman. Over time, men will trust you more and are willing to hand over their parents to you.
02.
Reject violence
When a man commits violence against a woman, a woman must take up the weapons of the law to protect herself. Sometimes if she is just a little bit of a minor injury, then at this time you must explain your thoughts to the man, and you must let the man figure it out, what would you do if the man does this again.
So when a woman refuses violence, then a man can continue to love the woman and will no longer be violent to the woman.
If the woman does not make any refutation after violence against a woman, over time, men will feel that it is common and will feel that this is common, so they will no longer care about it. For women, this is simply hell on earth.
So you must know how to refuse this behavior. When you refuse, men will not abuse you in this regard and make your life easier.
03.
Reject mediocrity
A person must reject mediocrity. If you think that life is enough now, then others will think that you are a woman without pursuit, and men will also have bad views on you.
So sometimes, we have to work hard to improve ourselves and change the status quo, instead of living a life of having clothes to reach out and eat. In this way, all the pressure will be on the man and the other party will feel dissatisfied.
When you reject mediocrity, you can lead the men around you to cheer up.
04.
Reject other men
People must know how to reject other men. Some people think that others are good to them and they should also be good to others. Although they have a partner, they still have no relationship with others. In this way, the people around them will feel safe, and they will also feel that this woman is unreliable and a person with aphrodisiac.
Some people think that people outside pursue themselves because they are charming and think that men outside are good to them. Then this is their own happiness, and they also think that others will envy them. In fact, a woman who thinks like this is a woman without thinking ability.
Because sometimes there are too many men outside, it does not necessarily mean that you are charming, but it can only mean that you are a person without principles, and men at home may no longer respect you.
So some men are most afraid of is that the women at home cuckold themselves. Then you have to know this weakness of a man and don’t easily touch the other person’s bottom line, which will not benefit the relationship between two people.
05.
Reject the request of your sister
Sometimes people in their mother's family will have some requirements for women, such as the woman is already married, but people in their mother's family will think that this woman should help their mother, which is also a drag on women.
Sometimes we need to help our parents’ people, but sometimes many things are not our jobs. Some of them are already married, so we have to think about our small family, not our parents’ family.
Especially when the brothers and sisters in the mother's family ask you to pay your money or financial resources, then at this time, you must forgive the interests.
Don’t drag your husband down because the people in your parents’ family are not fair to your husband, and your husband will also have some ideas about you.
Women who know how to refuse are often better able to win the likes of men. Sometimes we must know how to reject this man, sometimes we must know how to reject people outside, and sometimes we must see our identity clearly. When we get married, don’t just think about the people in our parents’ family.
