"Pre-marital examination" is a pre-marital practice that more and more newlyweds will choose now. But unexpectedly, it is precisely because of this marriage examination report that a couple who were about to enter the wedding hall has fallen apart. So what is going on?
Tingting (pseudonym) is a teacher in a middle school. She has a gentle personality and is deeply loved by students. She is particularly responsible for her work, so she has also been recognized by many students' parents. Tingting's boyfriend A Peng (pseudonym) is an employee of a logistics company. Because of her outstanding work ability, her salary and benefits are not bad.
The two of them had no friction or disputes from getting to getting married, and their relationship had been stable. They had been in love for 5 years. They were originally planning to get married, but Tingting's father suddenly passed away and the marriage period could only be temporarily postponed.
However, Tingting did not have any worries or concerns, because before that, she had met her boyfriend's family many times, and the other party recognized her very much, but unexpectedly, when the extended marriage was finally put on the agenda, her boyfriend's family's attitude changed.
Tingting said: "Before, they were very nice to me, giving people the feeling that they were already a family, but this time, when they finally got married, their family's attitude changed 180 degrees."
In fact, Tingting's mother was not a nonsense person, because her daughter had been with A Peng for so many years, and her daughter recognized A Peng from the bottom of her heart, so she did not make any excessive demands, and just hoped that the man could give 100,000 yuan of bride gifts.
And she will not monopolize this money. After the two get married, she will hand over all the money to her daughter to run her small family. In other words, the 100,000 yuan bride price will be used in the end for the two children.
But unexpectedly, the man's family said bluntly, "100,000 yuan is too high, it's impossible!"
A Peng's parents believed that his son had bought a house when he went to Tingting, so the woman shouldn't have asked for so much bride money at all. Besides, Tingting and her son have been together for so many years, and for reason, the man should give less bride money.
To be honest, Tingting felt very uncomfortable after hearing this. After all, the two were in a true relationship, not a transaction measured by money, but the words and actions of her boyfriend’s parents were completely treating this as a negotiable deal.
Tingting confessed: "If you don't even want to pay 100,000 yuan, then let's forget it." Seeing this, the man changed his face instantly and reluctantly agreed to the 100,000 yuan bride price, but said that they had another requirement, that is, Tingting must have a pre-marital physical examination, otherwise the 100,000 yuan bride price will be exempted from negotiation.
In fact, Tingting is not disgusted with marriage examination , but what she cares about is her boyfriend's silent voice and her family's aggressive attitude.
Tingting said: "At that time, I felt like a goods were placed on the surface and asked to inspect the goods in public. To be honest, I suddenly felt that the relationship between these 5 years was useless."
But at this point, Tingting still agreed to the marriage examination, but the result was unexpected. Her boyfriend A Peng was diagnosed with very serious uremia . If you don't do dialysis , you will be in danger of life. However, if you do dialysis, you still need to find a suitable kidney source, but even if you change your kidneys, you still have to face a lifespan of only 20 years.
Of course, more importantly, this series of operations will take not only time, but also the high cost of surgery that cannot be seen.
In this regard, Tingting was silent. Although she loved her boyfriend, given the man's previous attitude, his boyfriend's illness and her own family situation, their marriage was completely gone.
