A person's inner self is always expressed through external appearance.
If you want to establish your tall image, in addition to paying attention to appearance, you must also cultivate your inner self and know what to say and what not to say. Expressing high emotional intelligence is also one of the reasons for good popularity.
Maron is not only a legend in the table tennis world, but also a representative of high emotional intelligence.
Previously, Liang Jingkun attracted controversy among countless netizens because of his inappropriate behavior after winning. As the captain, Ma Long made public remarks, bluntly saying that the table tennis industry is a big family and calmed down a lot of controversy.
The reason why he is so popular is not only his outstanding record, but also his character, his pattern and mind. This is what we need to learn.
When you only complain, when you hurt people as soon as you open your mouth, but lament that you don’t have a good reputation, you might as well learn to reflect on your words and deeds. When you appear, people look down on them, and when you open your mouth, will others dislike them?
People always keep learning and improving in the face of setbacks and mistakes. Take good care of their mouths and have a certain sense of proportion, which helps to establish their image.
Don’t complain endlessly, it will only make people dislike
When you encounter problems, you should think of solutions instead of complaining. Complaints will be of no use except that they will make you lose your thoughts and affect the surrounding magnetic field.
However, some people encounter problems but don’t think about how to solve them. They will only blame others, complain about the environment, complain about others, and never reflect on themselves.
Complaints rely on their own abilities to make the surrounding environment chaotic and make others dislike.
People who have been living in complaining are full of negative energy, which will only make people disgusted.
No one likes negative energy, they all desire sunshine and positive energy. People who complain endlessly should not blame themselves for not having a good reputation, but reflect on themselves.
complaining is like a snowball, immersing yourself in negative emotions and expanding the problem. Not only is the problem difficult to solve, but it also gives you negative comments.
Smart people know that complaining is useless, but instead use courage to replace it, seek the method of problem, and move forward bravely. This is the correct way to open it.
Don’t always say bad things about others behind your back, as it is easy to expose your character
Don’t think about others, unless you do not do it yourself.
Smart people are cautious and disciplined. Even in private, they are strict with themselves, keep their mouths in mind, and do not harm others.
He Minhong's character in " Ode to Joy 3" is really incomprehensible. He always likes to say bad things about others behind his back. He will comment on his roommates he just met, saying that Zhu Zhe is an old cucumber, and that Yu Chuhui will immediately delete his circle of friends after being discovered.
is always self-centered and does not know how to take into account the feelings of others. Her characteristics of always judging others from the perspective of moral high ground are really not likable.
No one likes a person who always says bad things about others behind his back, which directly reflects a person's character. People like
cannot gain the trust of others, and always expose their low emotional intelligence and low quality. They live in their own moral values and do not know how to open their eyes to see others' thoughts.
Don’t always brag, it will only keep people away from
Being a person is sincere and seeking truth from facts. What kind of person you are, admit what kind of person you are.
But some people lack a good understanding of themselves and always love to brag, saying that they were so powerful that they were just framed by others, and it is easy to live in self-woven stories.
bragging people give people the impression of being unpragmatic. No one is a fool. Since you are in the same circle as you, how can you not know your background?
But some people just love to live in false prosperity, saying something that makes others think they are very powerful, but they are proud, but they don’t know that others just don’t have the same knowledge as them and are too lazy to expose it.
It’s better to be realistic as a person. The great thing you brag about will eventually slap yourself in the face and make you die.
Bragging people and arrogant people always attract hatred. It is really easy to cause trouble. You really have to quit.
Conclusion:
Emotional intelligence can be continuously cultivated. If you want to have good popularity, you might as well start by controlling your mouth.
Don’t say anything complaining, don’t say bad things about others, don’t brag or be frivolous, be down-to-earth and do things, and your life will always get better little by little.
What kind of person you are will say. On the contrary, what you say will directly affect others' judgment of you.
Please cherish your feathers, start by saying everything well, build a good relationship with others little by little, and life will always get better.
