In our country, we pay quite attention to human nature and respect for the world. In the past, we held a banquet, so we gathered together and had fun. No matter how many gifts we received, we wanted to have fun.
But now it is different. As people's communication scope becomes wider and more people come into contact with, the number of people who hold banquets will only increase and not decrease, especially the number of colleagues who invite colleagues. The gifts are not as casual as before. If you don't get them properly, it will also affect your relationship.
So, when faced with invitations from colleagues, how should we share the money? Some people say that if others follow the same amount, I will follow the same amount. Just follow the public, but the relationship between colleagues is different, so this approach is inappropriate.
In fact, it is best to determine the money for each other based on the relationship. Of course, the close one should follow more, and the relationship should be less. But in short, it is better to follow less than more than more. If the gift money is wrong, it will not only be in vain, but also be thankless.
Today we will learn together, what are the priorities when taking gifts!
- Reciprocity exchanges
The essence of gifts is to repay favors. These favors and debts are paid back and forth between each other. Then, when giving gifts to others, they should not be lower than the number that others gave you before. Otherwise, although the other party doesn't say it, he will still feel unbalanced in his heart, which will affect the harmony of the relationship between them.
- respect local customs
As the saying goes, "A hundred miles of customs are different." If you are visiting other places, you should understand the local customs in advance when following the gifts to avoid violating local taboos, because some places pay great attention to the amount of gifts.
- Distinguish the relationship with the other party
If you are a colleague who is a colleague with a very good relationship in normal times, then you must go to the banquet in person, but if you are a colleague with an average relationship, you need to consider it clearly.
or many parties just think they have sent it to their close friends, but they didn't send it to you. They felt it was inappropriate, so they sent you an invitation. Therefore, when facing this situation, you must consider it clearly to avoid embarrassment.
- The gifts of leaders and employees
Many people may have encountered such banquets. Some leaders will take more gifts to employees. If you think this is just a simple way of human nature, then you are wrong. This is a good time for leaders to win people's hearts.
However, if you and your leader attend the same banquet, then you will have less money as you follow. After all, it is necessary to show weakness appropriately in front of your leader.
- colleagues who have resigned
There is another tricky problem, that is, when a colleague who has resigned invites you to the banquet, what should you do? In fact, people just left the company and the place where they worked, and their friendship was still there.
So, this person deserves to return it, and it is necessary to attend the banquet, otherwise the other party will be embarrassed and think you are deliberately staying away from the other party.
A banquet cannot be separated from the share money and the banquet. When it comes to banquets, how to choose and what to choose is very important, and the amount of alcohol is huge, so the choice of banquets is particularly important.
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is produced in Maotai Town, Kweichow. With the rise of the sauce-flavored wine craze, it has been popular. Since its birth, it has been highly sought after and is favored by a group of new and old wine friends.
Select the local red tassel glutinous sorghum, Chishui River water, high-quality protein wheat, with a delicate and mellow taste, soft and smooth mouthfeel. When the wine is spinning in the mouth, it feels very refreshing. When smacks your lips, the aroma of sauce is prominent, and the aroma of grain, the aroma of flowers and fruits, the aroma of burnt fragrance and other aromas are intertwined, which is extremely comfortable. I want to drink another cup after drinking, which makes people intoxicated.The wine circle also joked: "Thousand yuan Maotai, one hundred yuan will be rewarded" which shows the recognition of this wine!
In fact, for the matter of being a part-time money, emotional intelligence is required to handle it well so that you will not be thankless. Therefore, it is always beneficial to learn more about human nature and worldly affairs.
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