French writer Hugo said: "What makes us fall is often our friends." It is a good thing for people to make more friends when they are alive, but once they make friends, it is a disaster. My acquaintance with him, my acquaintance with him, was so painful and so unbearable. That year, after resigning from the bank, I came to Weihai, Shandong Province. I met him through a friend's introduction. He was 5 years younger than me. When we first met, we felt that the brother was very enthusiastic and sincere, so we met many local friends through him. There are business and political circles, and everyone eats and drinks together, which is very pleasant and harmonious.
But in the later actual contact, I unknowingly got into their trap. First, I said to do business together, then I asked me to advance the funds first, and then I said to give me more profits. I have not seen through this series of methods, but I just feel that they are friends and loyal enough. When my funds were trapped, they all let go and hide far away when they were in a passive state. Since I and them had no contract or legal procedures, I could only swallow my teeth.
Pakalicil said: "Friends who disguise are worse than vicious enemies." I lost more than 100,000 yuan because I trusted these so-called friends. When I understood all this, I could no longer remedy it, so I had to admit defeat. This painful lesson made me deeply realize that the more enthusiastic you are to be, the more you should be careful and never take enthusiasm as sincere, otherwise, you will definitely suffer. I used to like making friends very much, and I always thought it was easier for friends to do things. My friends also said that I was hospitality and loyal. It was in such a lively and bustling crowd that I lost time, money, used by people, and deceived me.
As the saying goes: One mistake can bring wisdom. Over the years, I have experienced too many people and things, and I have suffered too many losses and been deceived. Now, I no longer want to make more friends. My buddies used to be loyal, my friends used to call them, and my glory used to be unlimited, but now they have become the objects I hate. I don’t want to live such a life anymore, because those are all bubbles, clouds, and hypocritical appearances. After experiencing many changes in personnel and the ups and downs of life, now, I have completely let go of my previous obsession. I just want to be an ordinary person, I just want to be an ordinary person, ordinary days and simple life are my choices, my happiness, and my happiness.
