Text: Qingfeng
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Have you invested in yourself? Do you think investing in yourself is important?
I think some people will say that they have not invested in themselves and think that investing in themselves is not important, while others will say that they are investing in themselves because investing in themselves is the most important thing.
In fact, no matter which one it is, we must understand that people should live more thoroughly and more soberly. We must know that investing in ourselves is a very important thing, and we must always learn to invest in ourselves.
Only by learning to invest in ourselves can our lives get better and our lives will become different. As there is a saying: "Everyone can run, and the mountain will fall."
In this life, we can truly rely on ourselves, so we must learn to rely on ourselves, learn to invest in ourselves, and let ourselves give ourselves the life we want.
Invest in yourself, and the return will be greater
We must learn to invest in ourselves, because in this life, only we ourselves will not let ourselves down, and only we ourselves will not let ourselves down.
We know how to live our life, what we need, and how to do to have everything we want.
So we must learn to invest in ourselves, because as we grow up, we will find that only we can give it to others.
No matter how much others love us or care about us, only we can give the happiness of our lives, and only we can give the beauty of our lives.
When we don’t know how to invest in ourselves, we will find that our life is difficult and our life is difficult. At this time, we will understand that our life will only go downhill.
And at this time, our lives are not controlled by ourselves. Only when we know how to invest in ourselves can our lives become better and our lives will also become better.
So we must understand that we must learn to invest in ourselves in this life. Only by learning to invest in ourselves can our lives become better.
In fact, life is like this. If we learn to invest in ourselves, life will get better. The most fundamental reason is that life is in our hands. As for how to live it all depends on ourselves.
If we invest in others, then we will give all the right to good or bad life to others. At this time, our lives will inevitably be uncontrollable. Once the other person is not good, our lives will be unhappy.
Investing in others may make you disappointed
My friend Xiaojuan used it to invest in her marriage after getting married. She is very good to her husband and children, but she is not good to herself. She works hard to make money just for better family conditions and for a better future life, and also wants to give her children a better living environment.
So Xiaojuan always works overtime and always works hard, working while taking care of the children. Xiaojuan does a good job. Xiaojuan always thinks that her life is happy, after all, she gives 100% or even more to her family.
Xiaojuan always thought that her family would get better and better. No matter how bad her husband sometimes is, no matter how low her husband's income is, Xiaojuan feels it doesn't matter. After all, there is love between the two, they care about each other, and they value each other, so no matter how much they pay, Xiaojuan is willing.
But something happened later, which made Xiaojuan understand that it was not what she thought. She thought that she would live a better life and a better marriage, but in the end she found that her husband didn't think so, and that her husband did not treat this marriage like this.
At that moment, Xiaojuan was disappointed. Xiaojuan suddenly understood one thing, that is, she had invested in marriage, which was equivalent to handing over the right to decide on life to marriage, and marriage was not something she could decide on by herself.
But if Xiaojuan invests in herself, her life will be in her own hands and she will not be disappointed.
So many times, what we need to know is how you make a choice. When you choose to invest in others, or are not under your own control, then your investment must be risky, but if you invest in yourself, it will be completely different.
We will never let ourselves down
In this life, there are many people who will disappoint us, and many people will surprise us. At the beginning, we always think that many things are in our hands, but over time, we will find that many things are actually uncontrollable.
is like when we invest in a relationship, we thought we would gain a good relationship, but over time, we suddenly realized that we were disappointed and we did not gain a better relationship.
For example, in a relationship, we always think that if we are good to each other, the other party will see our goodness, understand our goodness, and the relationship will be more stable.
But over time, we will find that it is not what we think. Many times, the other party will not feel what we do. What is important is that some people will think it is their charm, not our maintenance of a relationship. When you are like
, you will find that no matter how hard you work, your investment will fail, but if we invest in ourselves, it will be different. We will not let down, and we will not let ourselves down. We know that life is our own and life is our own.
So many times, what you need to understand is that no matter what, you must learn to invest in yourself.
For the rest of your life, just invest in yourself!
Our life is not short or long. How to live in the future depends on ourselves, so many times, you must learn to take your life into your own hands.
means that no matter when, you must learn to invest in yourself.
When you learn to invest in yourself, you will find that your life is in your own hands and that only you can control your life.
What kind of life do you want in the future, and you can make the decision. What kind of life will be like in the future, you have to say that when we are like this, we will never feel disappointed or painful.
Because we put all our hopes on ourselves, all our hopes can be satisfied, rather than expecting others to satisfy them.
In life, we have learned to satisfy ourselves and learn to invest in ourselves. In fact, we have already won more than half of it.
more than a lifetime, I hope you can learn to invest in yourself and learn to invest in yourself!
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