Before, a student consulted me: "After my husband betrayed, the extramarital woman had a special green tea, pretending to be weak, showing concern, and having one routine after another. What should I do?"
Actually, this is a problem that my students often encounter. After all, which one of the Saner outside is really simple? They will say to men: "I really love you, I don't want to destroy your family relationship, and I don't want you to be stuck in the middle and feel uncomfortable."
seems to have no requirements and don’t want anything. In fact, this is the most powerful thing. Retreat to advance, but instead makes men worry about her.
Then what should we do when we encounter this situation? Today, Teacher Caizi will teach you how to solve the problem of meeting green tea three when ?
Step 1: Identify the demand for green tea three
What is the requirement for green tea three? When a woman chooses to do three, there must be a need, and what we need to do is to identify the needs of three.
Some three are for men’s money, and her needs are money. If you grasp the financial power of a man and you can’t get anything from a man, will she still focus on your man? In this case, if you persuade me to withdraw a little, why wouldn't that San leave by himself?
Some of them are for the love of your man, and she just lacks love. may also be that two people ask for emotional needs from each other.
If a man wants to divorce and be with the third party very crazy, you should pay special attention. At this time, your man is in the brain crazy period. At this time, don’t panic. Calm down , give the man the warmth of his family, care about him, and pull the man’s heart back.
Once a man gives less emotional feedback to the outside three, that three must be afraid and will slowly make trouble with the man. There will be internal conflicts between the two, and the man cannot obtain emotional needs from the three. And you made him feel the warmth. Slowly, won’t the man return to his family?
There is another three, and we don’t seem to see what she needs. We express our dissatisfaction with the three to men, but he doesn’t care. He says it’s just a play. I still love this family, but if you let the men get to the three outside, he keeps enjoying the blessings of the whole person.
We ran to tell San that this man doesn’t really love you, so you should not destroy my family. As a result, she said that she didn't love this man either, but she just took what she needed and told her not to focus on her. What should I do if I encounter this kind of three who cannot see the need?
Think carefully about this third is there really no need? Why is she unwilling to leave the man if she seems to have no demand? In fact, her need is to be on the top!
Then you can show off directly with her and let her know that a man cares about this family. She has no chance to get to power. If she doesn’t leave, she can only be the three for the rest of her life.
At this time, three will definitely consider it carefully and take the next steps. At this time, we can deal with it calmly.
Step 2: Fight the protracted battle
As I just said above, no matter which type of green tea three is, it is for money, emotions, and position, we can seize the needs of three and break them one by one. Next, let's leave it to time to fight a protracted battle.
For money, we must take the financial power and fight the protracted war , so that she can clearly know that there is really no money for men. No matter how much she has, it will not work, so she naturally chose to leave in shame.
Picture of emotional feelings, we can be gentle to men, let them feel the warmth of home again, , let children stay with their father more, and find more things for men to do. For example, taking care of children, going to see parents together, etc.
First take back the time the man gives three, then attract the man's attention and keep the man's attention on the child and you.
After a long time, no matter how gentle the third one is or how understanding the third one is, I can’t help but be disappointed and lost. In this protracted war, the distance between men and three is getting farther and farther, and emotional needs are becoming more and more mismatched.
Your man can't give the care he wants, and the relationship between the two has broken down. In this case, it will be a matter of time before they can separate.
For this kind of three images, a protracted war is the best. No matter how much a man wants to divorce, children, parents, property, etc. are all issues that need to be negotiated. After a set of processes, all it takes is time.
But for this kind of three who want to get ahead, the longer the time delays, the more unfavorable it is for them.
Since that's the case, this is the original wife's opportunity. We can seize this period of time and use skills to pull the man's heart back in this protracted war.
What are the tips? Actually, I mentioned it in my previous articles. I wonder who are still remembered by fans who read my articles now? Keep calm and calm . Everyone remembers this. This is the key and the key is to remember it.
Especially when encountering this kind of green tea three, we must not make a big fuss with men, otherwise we will push the men out. What else? Make men feel fresh, show weakness appropriately, satisfy men's emotional needs, etc.
3 are all in demand, and green tea three is naturally the same. as long as we grasp her needs, fight a protracted war, and our skills will naturally make three leave .
