Work is for money. Will you cut your salary by 90% just because of the person you like? Do you think this is possible? It is obvious that this is impossible. If you encounter such a good thing, then you must pay attention to it. Maybe this is not a good thing, but a disaster.
Just like this in the article, this woman needs to be with the old man if she doesn’t have money. Is it really true love? Really, do you love this old man? Do you really love him? I hope that through this case, all the old men can pay attention to this matter. The nanny cut her salary by 90%. The nanny: Let’s get married, I: OK, but there are five requirements.
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79-year-old Mr. Li:
I didn’t expect such a thing to happen to me. I originally thought that this thing would not happen to me, but it really happened to me. The reason why I say this is not to show off, but to tell the old man that sometimes, even if you think it is incredible, even if you think it is impossible, it may happen to you. All we have to do is learn to refuse, otherwise we will regret it in the end, and I will almost regret it.
The only thing that makes me happy is that, but I choose to refuse, I hope all the elderly can learn from me. When facing these tests, you must learn to refuse. Only in this way can you keep everything about yourself, otherwise you will not only not get happiness, but also lose everything about yourself. Even if you want it. Losing everything about yourself will not harm the child.
What if the child is harmed by such a thing? Xiao Zhang and I met a few years ago. Xiao Zhang is the nanny in my family. I treat Xiao Zhang very well. I will definitely treat him well when he works at home. Only when I treat him well will he be nice to me, right? I don’t think I have any special memory of him, which means that people are good to me and I will be nice to them, it’s that simple.
But Xiao Zhang confessed to me. Xiao Zhang told me, "Why don't we be together?" I was frightened in the face of Xiao Zhang's sudden confession. I told Xiao Zhang, don’t joke about me, this matter cannot be joked about. Xiao Zhang told me that I was not a joke, I was serious, and I only told you this to you because I loved you. In order to show that I am sincere to you, now you can give me a 10% salary, which means I will cut my salary by 90% yourself.
used to give me 5,000 yuan a month, but now I just need to give me 500 yuan a month. This is enough to show that I am sincere to you. If it weren't for my true love for you, I wouldn't have been like this. 50% of the elderly who face such good things and 99% of the elderly who face such good things will agree.
But I told Xiao Zhang that facing a beautiful woman and then facing such a good thing, 99% of the elderly would agree, but I told Xiao Zhang that if you don’t want to be with me, it’s okay, but I have 5 requirements. If you can agree with my 5 requirements, then we will be together. If you don’t agree, then forget it, I don’t care. These five requirements can also be regarded as a test for Xiao Zhang. Only when he passes my test can other things be possible. If he cannot pass it, I will never give him a chance.
The first requirement is to repay debts.
Not long ago, you told me that your parents were seriously ill. My mother was sick and my father was sick again. I went to the hospital five or six times. When your parents entered the hospital, you had no money, and then you borrowed money from me. You overdrawed your salary for nearly 10 years. You borrowed nearly 500,000 yuan from me. Isn't it that even if you are with me, you have to repay the money you borrowed from me.
I have IOUs, videos, evidence, etc. Even if you sue until you get excited every day, you have to return the money to me, and you can't lose a penny of the money you owe me. Don't think you're with me, and then you don't have to return the money to me. You should pay back the money you owe me. It's natural to repay the debt, right?
This is my father's money I gave to you myself, not to you. This time the money is our pre-marital property and has nothing to do with you. Since it is said to be lent to you, since it is said to be my pre-marital property, that is mine, then you should pay back the money. After all, if there is not, your parents may be gone now, and I don't care whether this matter is true or not. Anyway, the money will be returned to me.
The second requirement is, and the rent must continue to be given.
Since your parents were discharged from the hospital, they have lived in another house of mine. If you can receive more than 5,000 yuan of rent every month, and now if you live in your parents, then your parents will also have to pay. If you gave money in the past, you will also have to pay in the future. Even if we are already married, even if we are together, even if we are all a family, your parents will still have to pay rent, and the rent will continue to be paid, and no penny will be missing.
Don’t think that I am ruthless like this. What I want to say is that I just rely on rent to live. If your father’s or you don’t pay any money, then how can I live in the future? If you want me, I still have to pay rent. I am with you, not with your parents, so your parents want to rent me.
No rent can be reduced. Even if you are together, the family should give favors and favors. There is no clear distinction between people, not to mention that you are with me, not your parents are with me, but there is one thing I can tell you, that is, if I have the opportunity or have this requirement in the future, my parents who can be filial will treat you well. Anyway, the rent will still be given, even if the family has to pay. I have no money and nothing is there. Besides, how much does your parents have to do with me? I have nothing to do with you.
The third requirement is that you must divorce your husband.
Another requirement is that since you want to be with me, since you say you really love me, then you should divorce your husband. You told me that you divorced your husband, but you lied to me. If I hadn't known, I would have been deceived by you. You and your husband had never divorced at all. To put it bluntly, you are still with your husband. On the surface, you have divorced, but you have not divorced at all, right?
Not long ago, you told me that you were feeling unwell and took leave. The result was that you were not feeling uncomfortable, but you went out with your husband. You also secretly took your husband home. Did you still bring him to me? If I hadn't seen this, I wouldn't have known this. You told me that you had divorced, that was a lie to me. Now you said you like it and I want to be with me. Then all you have to do is to divorce your husband and be with me, right?
If you don’t divorce, why should you be with me? I don’t want to harm others, I don’t want to commit crimes. So if you want to be with me, then divorce your husband. I will be with you only after divorce with your husband. I will not be with you if I don’t divorce with your husband. Even if I want to be with you, I can’t be with you. Only when I want to be with you can divorce your husband can we be with you.
The fourth requirement, I will not help you pay the mortgage.
I will not help you pay the mortgage. If you bought a house with your husband, the money is not mine. Why should I help you pay the more than three million yuan? No one's money is not mine. Why should I help you pay the more than 3 million yuan? No one's money is not blown by the strong wind. Even if I have money, I will not help you spend it. What's more, I can't afford that much money at once, so I will not repay the money for you. The house is your husband and you. If you want to rent a house with me, then make it clear. I will not help others pay the mortgage. You want to rent a house by yourself.
If you want to be with me, then make it clear. I will not help you pay the mortgage. You should find a way to do your own house. Unless you give me the house, I will help you pay the mortgage, but can you give me the house? The down payment was already paid a lot of money, and then I paid more than 20,000 yuan a month, which cost nearly several years. Now if you ask me to give me the house.
I think you can't bear to let go. Even if you can't bear to let go, your husband can't bear to let go, let alone how to divide the house if you haven't divorced. So I won't help you pay the mortgage for this house. You can do it yourself and deal with the house as much as you do. I don't care. Anyway, I won't give you a penny of the mortgage. Even if we are together, even if we get married, I won't pay you the mortgage.
The fifth requirement, I will not hand over everything to you.
I have three houses, and the pension is more than 4,000 yuan per month. If the pension and rent are combined, the monthly income is about 20,000 yuan, but I will never give you these things, let alone give you my house. Although I am older, I still know these things. Once I give you these things, you are very likely to not live with me, or take away everything from me, and then kick me away. In order to avoid these tragedies, I can only tell you five requirements and explain this matter to you clearly.
is not only responsible to myself, but also to this family. If I give you everything, then how can I live in the future? Who will be responsible to me? People are like this. Although I am not sure you are such a person, I have to pay attention to it. So don’t think I am ruthless. Isn’t this for this family or for myself?
Of course, if you cannot agree to my request, then don’t be with me. Now is the time to test you. You can do it yourself. This is my fifth request. If you agree, we will be together. If you don’t agree, then forget it.
After saying his 5 requests, Xiao Zhang told me, aren’t you just making things difficult for me? We are all from the family when we are together. Since we are all from the family, why do we need to share it? Then, isn’t the money they owe yours? We are all a family.
And the divorce between me and my husband has been in progress, and we will soon be divorced. Then we will be together. There is no need to make trouble with me because of this matter, so there is no need to tell me about your 5 requests. I will live with you well. Don’t think so much. I’m not that kind of woman. I really want to laugh when I heard Xiao Zhang say this. Isn’t Xiao Zhang really that kind of person?
If it wasn't like that, he wouldn't have made it clear to me. This matter is obvious. Xiao Zhang wants everything about me, what he wants is my house, and what he needs is my money. Even if Xiao Zhang only has 10% of his salary and is willing to marry me, I don’t have Xiao Zhang here. It will only make me lose everything here. Maybe I will be happy at the beginning, but I can be sure that everything will be there in the future, otherwise I won’t be with me. So I think my choice to refuse is correct, and I think that doing this is a role model for everyone to learn from.
Conclusion:
is indeed the reason. After all, don’t you have any bigger intentions if you don’t have money to be with you? Otherwise, how could I cut my salary by 90%? Work is just to make money, but I don’t even need 90% of my salary. Aren't there any bigger intentions? Otherwise, how could you not have that money? So when faced with this, you can only choose not to refuse. The 100% waiting for you is a tragedy.
I hope that through this case, all the elderly can pay attention. The elderly who are talking about must think seriously about this and some of the complexity of them. If you don’t handle it well, just say that. If you are not right, you should also be complicated by the family and the children. If you don’t handle it well, if you agree, then it will definitely be a tragedy when you are talking. It is very likely that your children will be harmed. If you can’t help the children, forget it. If you harm the children, then there is no need.
