People often ask, what is the difference between love and marriage, some say there is no difference, and some say there is a world of difference.
In fact, the biggest difference between marriage and love is responsibility. Although you must also have a sense of responsibility when you are in love, the responsibility here is different from the responsibility of marriage.
When you are in love, you are more responsible to each other. After entering marriage, you must not only be responsible to each other, but also to the small family formed by the two and be responsible for the upcoming little life.
In addition, both parents must also be responsible, and all matters must be handled well at home and outside the home. You can no longer eat alone and the whole family will not be hungry like before.
Except for those families with good conditions, young couples in ordinary families are very financially struggling for a long time after getting married.
In addition to young people spending money, they have no savings, which is also very important. They basically rely on their parents to help them. Some young couples basically rely on their parents to eat and drink.
It’s okay for parents to have some ability, but their parents are unable to protect themselves. So they can only rely on young people to bear it themselves. They just hope that their lives are dull and without disasters.
A wife at home found the red envelopes received by her child full moon wine before. After the child was born, the family’s financial pressure became increasingly greater and more powerful. Usually, she couldn’t bear to buy one of her new clothes.
Now there is no money to buy diapers for the child. I originally wanted to save the child's red envelopes for the child, but now it seems that I can only embezzle the red envelopes first and return them to the child later.
But my wife never expected that the red envelopes at home had been stolen, but now someone has stolen the blame. My wife opened several red envelopes in a row, but only red envelopes but no money.
originally had all the 100-yuan bills missing. It was obvious that someone took away all the money in the red envelope without their knowledge. The place where the red envelopes are placed is the husband. It is obvious that the husband secretly misappropriated the money on his back. The husband's actions made the wife very angry.
As a man, if you don’t have money, you should think of a way by yourself. What is the ability to go home and "steal" your child’s red envelopes? The woman couldn’t help but feel a little choked as she said.
: The woman is both angry and wronged when she realizes this matter now. She also feels a little bit of self-blame. What should I do if my child’s diapers are now?
According to the woman herself, her husband has been decadent at home for two years. She has not gone to work for two years, and she was tolerant and understanding the other party at the beginning.
I hope the other party can be decadent for a while and then cheer up. After all, everyone has times when they encounter difficulties, but the wife never expected that the husband was so unsuccessful and secretly spent all the money on the child.
Netizens also expressed sympathy for this woman’s experience, accusing this man of being too irresponsible and having seen many people who have resigned from their parents, and this is the first time they have seen him having eaten a child.
Parents think that their children are sensible when they get married, and their wives think that men are sensible when they have children, but in fact, a person is ignorant and will not be sensible because of their identity changes.
The child is still so young now. Her husband has not been working for two years. The woman is still unyielding. It can be seen that the woman is still a good person. I hope the man will cheer up, otherwise there will be no place to regret it in the future.
In addition to many netizens who accuse her husband, some netizens also support their understanding, saying that the man may have encountered some difficulties and spent the money, or the money was spent on his wife and children, but his wife did not know.
But no matter what, the man spent the money and did not tell his wife that this was very problematic. After all, both of them were married, so what else should I hide from his wife?
Having a wife and children has not worked for two years, so it is OK to find small jobs, do odd jobs, deliver takeaways, etc. It has not changed at all for so long, which shows that the man has a big problem.
It is really a very painful thing to marry such a man who is not independent and lacks responsibility, and even has children.
However, women are weak, but they are strong as mothers. Although they met such an unreliable man, women did not treat life with themselves. Instead, they set up stalls, sell flowers, move goods, etc. to make money to subsidize their families.
As long as the child lives by his side, it is the happiest thing. It can be seen that the woman is ready to regard the child as the pillar of her future life. As for marriage and husband, it has already died in name only.
