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Today's article may be a bit decadent. But I still want to share it with my friends.
fights nothingness, only keep doing it
Recently watched a TV series " Sanyue has a new job ", which tells the story of a young girl Sanyue, who went to the funeral home to work as a makeup artist for a body. In the drama "
", because of this job, she saw a lot of darker and more real side of human nature, and because of her work, she reconciled with her original family and understood the meaning of life better. There is a clip in the drama
. After Sanyue worked in the funeral home for a while, his fear gradually turned into confusion: since life always encounters accidents, no matter how brilliant or down-and-out it is, there is only one way back. Then what is the meaning of our life? What is the meaning of our life and work?
Senior sister told her: Only if you continue to do it and keep doing it, everything will be solved. I was deeply touched by this paragraph of
.
I am a relatively pessimistic person and often feel the same as Sanyue.
feels that all struggles are futile.
However, after seeing this passage, I felt that I had some new insights.
For example,
If I have been like myself in the past thirty years, I feel like I can live my whole life.
However, by chance, I opened the book and saw a different world. From the book, I saw those broad and interesting ideas from others.
Following the methods in the book, I tried to change my way of thinking, which also made me realize that life still has some fun. When my thoughts changed, I gradually emerged from the predicament. The little changes in
actually did not change anything drastically to my situation at that time. But I insisted on it with all my might:
Even if it is a little bit of change, I must persist.
I want to see what I will eventually become.
Maybe I am willing to stick with it when I can’t see any hope. Looking back now, the change is still huge.
This may be the power of practice and persistence. If you keep doing this, you will always have the idea of gaining something. It has been formed since I was thirty years old.
sounds like a simple thing, but for most of us it is quite difficult to do.
As ordinary people, we have no resources and no connections.
Without these, there are many difficulties.
First of all, it is difficult for us to get information expansion.
You don’t know where there is an opportunity to develop, even if this opportunity is in front of you.
Tao When Bao became popular, I was working in Humen, Dongguan . There are clothing factories everywhere, with countless clothing resources. However, I have been wandering there for several years and I don’t know how to use this resource. Because at that time, I didn’t know Taobao, nor could I connect clothing and e-commerce.
Instead, I returned to the small county town and started doing some e-commerce business.
This is the poor knowledge, which makes us miss many opportunities.
We also don’t have the courage and confidence to persevere.
I used to live in the utility room in the hospital with my parents. At that time, there was a young man in the mother's cleaning team. He was very motivated. In addition to doing cleaning in the hospital, he also organized people to do some outsourcing.
After working so diligently for several years, the young man saved some money. At first, he wanted to use the money to set up a cleaning company, so that he could take orders better with the scale.
But after thinking about it, he still hesitated.
In his words, this money is all my belongings. If I invest it, if I fail, the hard work of these years will be in vain.
In the end, he did not take out the money to run a company, but went to work honestly.
As ordinary people, our trial and error costs are very high.
For example, if you have one hundred yuan and ask you to take one yuan to try and make mistakes, you will not hesitate, after all, if you are wrong, you are wrong. It has little impact on you overall;
However, when you only have ten yuan and ask you to take one yuan to try and make mistakes, you may hesitate. After all, if you lose one piece, you will lose one tenth.
Even so, I still hope that my friends can insist on doing one thing, even if it is a small thing when they are confused and have no direction.
For example, if you like to draw, then stick to drawing;
If you like to read, read it one by one;
If you want to be healthier, start with a one-kilometer running;
In short, do it and keep doing it.
Maybe at the beginning, no line can be drawn straight;
A page book will be distracted several times;
also runs out of breath for one kilometer;
But as long as you do it and keep insisting, look back every once in a while, you will find that you have changed quietly.
And in this process, the most difficult thing is to be able to continue to do it. It is impossible for us to predict the successful results from the beginning when we do it. During the process of doing it, we are constantly confused, unable to see the direction, and do not know what will be gained in the future. This is the norm.
But even so, don't stop.
Think about it, no matter what, just think I have watched a short video for a while, watched a soap opera, or listened to a while of gossip. Anyway, doing other things is a waste of time. It is better to waste time on things that have hope for the future.
Once you have a better mentality, you will not be so unwilling to accept it.
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