A man who eats soft food is like a parasite on a woman, relying on her woman's offerings and shelter to survive. They are used to asking for it and take it for granted, not only will they not develop a little gratitude and enterprising spirit. Instead, he blamed the woman for being petty. At the beginning, Yang Liu and Huang Xiao were together, and they were interested in Huang Xiao's enterprising and hard work. But when he got married, Huang Xiao was completely different. He asked Yang Liu for money in big and small matters, and said in a round-trip, "I don't have money now." Yang Liu's trust and efforts became a joke in the end.
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In everyone's eyes, Yang Liu is a strong woman. She opened a training company and led the team to serve various companies and groups, which is well-known in the industry. In the first half of his life, Yang Liu devoted her body and mind to her career, delaying major events in her life.
At a party, Yang Liu met Huang Xiao. Huang Xiao is a talented person, and is eloquent, especially with a cheerful smile and is very contagious.
In addition, Huang Xiao opened a supply chain company. In Yang Liu's view, her encounter and Huang Xiao are fate, with the same views, matching abilities, and evenly matched, which is the best combination of marriage. During the relationship, Huang Xiao was very gentle and considerate to Yang Liu. Therefore, a year later, Yang Liu and Huang Xiao received the marriage certificate .
After getting the certificate, Huang Xiao took Yang Liu home to meet his parents. To Yang Liu's surprise, Huang Xiao's original family was very ordinary. His mother-in-law was a housewife, his father-in-law was doing a small business, and his elder sister-in-law got married and had children. My brother-in-law is idle at home and does not do his job properly. There is also an 80-year-old grandma at home.
At that time, Huang Xiao's family had just bought a new house and had not purchased furniture. It was about to celebrate his grandmother's birthday again.
Huang Xiao told Yang Liu that he spent a lot of money to buy a house and decorate. Now he has no money on him. Can you help with the furniture?
Yang Liu was originally a cheerful person. She was determined to live with Huang Xiao. Besides, she could afford the money for buying furniture, so she quickly transferred 60,000 yuan to Huang Xiao.
Short later, Huang Xiao said that the company and the company were reducing expenses, and the supply chain business was getting harder and harder, and the money earned was barely enough to pay employees' wages, rents and social expenses. Instead of holding on, it’s better not to do it.
At that time, Huang Xiao still looked ambitious, and he also told Yang Liu that he had two good projects, and that he could earn more than 200,000 yuan if he finished it.
Although she watched Huang Xiao running around and docking, Yang Liu was still worried and told Huang Xiao to judge the situation and consider it carefully before making a decision. Faced with Yang Liu’s doubts, Huang Xiao can make up for his own words every time and speak without any leakage.
Huang Xiao told Yang Liu after signing the contract, and told Yang Liu that the funds were not enough and Yang Liu needed to advance the initial investment.
Yang Liu saw that the tree was ready, and in his heart to support Huang Xiao, he transferred 120,000 yuan to Huang Xiao.
But in less than half a year, Huang Xiao said that the project was ruined and he lost all his money. But immediately said that other projects are following up and that there is hope of making money this time.
Yang Liu's money was not caused by the strong wind. She also had employees who had to pay their wages, and her parents who had to support her, and the company also needed capital turnover.
Yang Liu told Huang Xiao to settle down first and talk about the project later. Unexpectedly, Huang Xiao agreed. What Yang Liu didn't expect was that Huang Xiao had officially laid flat after he agreed.
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Yang Liu is busy with work and has to go on business trips. He earns a lot of money, but he is also exhausted both physically and mentally. Whenever Yang Liu comes home after finishing her work, the house is empty and extremely deserted.
As soon as I called Huang Xiao, I was either on the way to eat and drink, or I was already drunk and talking nonsense.
Over time, Yang Liu felt dissatisfied. Huang Xiao had no company, did not do projects, had no job, and had gathered with friends all day long. Could it be that this is the case in his life? She hopes to achieve success with Huang Xiao, instead of dragging him while she is running forward.
"Didn't you say the timing is wrong? Let me settle down? I went out to drink, do you think I was playing? No one knows me, and I don't understand the channels, what can I do?" Huang Xiao said calmly but doesn't care, and even blamed Yang Liu for not understanding him.
"You have almost no income. Every time you call friends to eat, drink and drink, you get money from me. Are you deceiving yourself or being moved by yourself? Time has been wasted by you. You have to give up some ineffective social interaction."
"I know, I know", Huang Xiao patted his chest to guarantee.
But it still remains the same afterwards, without doing anything, eating, drinking, having fun, and being free and easy. During the period of
, Yang Liu encountered a big hurdle. Yang Liu's mother was diagnosed with nasopharyngeal cancer and was admitted to the hospital. Yang Liu ran between work and the hospital and lost a lot of weight.
No matter how powerful a woman is, she hopes to have a support. Yang Liu hopes that Huang Xiao can accompany her and comfort her at this time, go to the hospital to see her mother more, help and work together, so as to relieve her some pressure.
But Huang Xiao only showed up once when Yang Liu's mother was hospitalized. Yang Liu asked what Huang Xiao was doing? But Huang Xiao always said he was busy.
One day, Yang Liu, who had finished work, took care of her mother in the hospital. Suddenly, he received a call from Huang Xiao, saying that he was going to attend the opening ceremony of a friend's company and wanted to give him a lucky red envelope and ask Yang Liu to transfer money to him.
Looking at the weak mother lying on the hospital bed, listening to Huang Xiao's continuous urging in his ears. At that moment, Yang Liu suddenly realized that his true feelings had been wasted. Huang Xiao did not understand him at all, nor did he truly love her.
Yang Liu hung up the phone, but did not transfer the money.
After returning home, Huang Xiao has not come back yet. Yang Liu waited until after one o'clock in the morning before Huang Xiao came back. He was drunk and was at least seventy-seven minutes drunk.
Huang Xiao saw Yang Liu and said, "You asked you to transfer me a few thousand yuan, why don't you transfer me? You haven't answered my phone."
"Did you treat me as an ATM?" Yang Liu took a deep breath and asked.
"You can make money, make a lot of money. I am very happy and moved to marry a wife like you. Those who are not rich are husband and wife."
"Your family spent 60,000 yuan on furniture, you gave 120,000 yuan for projects, and your monthly pocket money is more than 10,000 yuan. You have no job for three years and have never brought a penny to your house. By the way, two days ago, you told me that your brother was going to get married and asked me to receive a gift of 28,000 yuan. You are used to eating soft food and don't want to do anything. Wait for me to raise you?"
In the past, Huang Xiao and Yang Liu got money. No matter what they used for, Yang Liu would not hesitate or ask. But now if you think about it carefully, she has been asked for her for many years since she got married to Huang Xiao, and Huang Xiao enjoyed it with peace of mind. I am not willing to give her some care and understanding when I enjoy it.
is that she was blinded by self-righteous love.
"What's the point of making the accounts like this? The couple should be so petty." Huang Xiao drank wine, his face flushed when he was angry, and his veins burst out.
Yang Liu looked at Huang Xiao’s appearance and was completely disappointed and divorced decisively.
But divorce is a tragic matter. I am really disappointed. Time is spent, and even a huge financial loss.
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From the story of Yang Liu and Huang Xiao, we can understand two truths:
A man who is truly capable and capable of doing things will never be verbally speaking, and only an empty and incompetent person is proud verbally. Some men have a good face and are more eloquent, dressing themselves up like ambition and about to do something big. When a woman sees it, she can easily fall into love.
is a trustworthy man, a man with real ideas, vision and ability will never brag about it. Before you can get things done, you will even keep silent and work hard.
Watch a man, it doesn’t mean to see what he says, but to see what he does.Specifically in marriage, it is to work hard together to earn money to support the family. It is really heartbreaking and caring, and when a woman encounters something, she charges in front and stays in the right hand.
If a man cannot give a woman enough sense of security and happiness, and is drawing big pie every day without actual actions, then he must be deceiving his feelings.
For men who sit and enjoy themselves as a person waiting to have a soft meal, they encourage men to get out of their way if they fail to achieve success. If they give up early, they can get back their happiness as soon as possible. The normal division of labor in the family, the heroine is the outside and the hero is the inside. Although it is different from the conventional family model, men also devote a lot of time and energy to the family, working hard for women outside to stabilize the rear. This kind of thing cannot be considered a soft-hearted person, and its contribution to the family and its contribution to the woman is the same as that of a woman.
men who really eat soft food are cheeky, lazy, incompetent, opportunistic, and enjoy their success. They have a sense of peace of mind and rely on women to make a living. Lying at home where the woman worked hard with her blood and sweat, she slept heavily. Such men cannot see the hard work and efforts of women.
Women get married, marrying the right one is a lifelong happiness, and marrying the wrong one is a lifelong pain. If your husband is really a soft meal, first encourage him and see if he can help him up. If the mud cannot support the wall again and again, get out earlier. Because this is not just a matter of behavior, but a matter of character.
