01: Is Wang Jun, who was forced to be "sexually incompetent" by his girlfriend, the real victim?
The first episode of " Heart Rippling " is very informative.
Lan Yingying plays Pan Xiaochen, who is an insurance seller. Although she is just a insurance seller, she can't stand it and she will sell it.
html is a sales champion every year, and the monthly income is jealous.
Pan Xiaochen can do her insurance career so well, that is, she has always maintained a "chicken blood" state when facing customers.
But Pan Xiaochen's "chicken blood" not only gave her a career, but also gave her a life.
urges her boyfriend Wang Jun to make progress every day, and asks him to strive to buy a house. This is Pan Xiaochen's compulsory course every day.
But the "chicken blood" that Pan Xiaochen's leaders and clients like, became silent pressure when they arrived at her boyfriend Wang Jun.
Every day, my girlfriend Pan Xiaochen's "life plan". Every day when she goes home, she is like a dean of teaching. In the first episode of
, Pan Xiaochen carefully prepared a surprise in order to ease the "seven-year itch" between the two.
Teacher uniforms, candlelight dinner, biological books full of hints, and bathtubs full of roses, Pan Xiaochen's thoughts are obvious.
, when facing Pan Xiaochen's enthusiastic invitation, Wang Jun first used overtime to make excuses. When I got home later, I seemed to be willing but not able to do it.
is obviously a romantic couple's little interest, but Wang Jun has been forced to create a "tragic" of calm death.
even went to the bathroom to take a "little blue pill" in order to meet Pan Xiaochen's physiological needs "rudely" and Wang Jun ran to the bathroom to eat a "Little Blue Pill".
Pan Xiaochen's strength and chicken blood made Wang Jun doubt this seven-year relationship.
Wang Jun, who wanted to break up but did not dare to break up, so he and the gym coach Yang Wanqing staged a big drama where Ximen Qing seduced Pan Jinlian.
, Pan Jinlian, is naturally Pan Xiaochen.
seduces her girlfriend to cheat, and then asks her to break up on her own initiative. It is natural, reasonable, and like a victim, she is free from this suffocating relationship.
Wang Jun's abacus was very smart.
But under this shrewdness, there is also a vulgarity that cannot be hidden.
Wang Jun's calculations are full of discomfort. But with the background of the plot of the first episode, his character did not collapse too much.
was forced into "sexual incompetence" by his girlfriend. It is reasonable for Wang Jun to break up.
As colleague Pan Xiaochen said, it is difficult enough to be a colleague with someone like her who is infused with blood. It is unimaginable that Wang Jun has lived with her for seven years.
At first glance, Wang Jun is very consistent with the identity of the victim.
His escapes are normal men and they will have normal reactions. Even if you have a plan, you will be forced to choose.
But put aside Wang Jun's image as a "diehier" and talk about some of his behaviors.
is not difficult to find that in this relationship, when facing his girlfriend Pan Xiaochen, Wang Jun has always been harboring the greatest malice and plotting hard. He is the perfect "lower man".
02: It took Pan Xiaochen to stay away from getting married for seven years. Wang Jun's cold violence has never stopped
Wang Jun always wanted to break up. In his opinion, the relationship between him and Pan Xiaochen is already "endless".
Just as Yang Wanqing said, the sunset is infinitely beautiful, but it is near dusk.
looks nothing wrong, but it is like a pile of stagnant water, without any splashes, and without any dreamy mist. There is no passion, no "sexual interest".
So, facing Pan Xiaochen who was dressed in sexy clothes, Wang Jun couldn't raise any interest. It’s understandable that I can’t escape the seven-year itch and want to break up.
But if we break up, the joke is like a mouthful of old blood in Wang Jun's heart. He wants to vomit, but he dare not. Don't vomit, and you're not happy all over.
Why don’t you dare to vomit?
has two reasons.
The first one is naturally Pan Xiaochen's strong personality. My girlfriend, who is vigorous and decisive in her career, is also very popular in life and has a unique and unique temperament.
, who is used to being arranged and educated, has very little say in front of Pan Xiaochen. The phone call in the first episode of
, "I am, you are, you are," exposed Wang Jun's family status.
I'm afraid Wang Jun wants to break up countless times, but as soon as he says, he is blocked by Pan Xiaochen's words. The second reason for
is that Pan Xiaochen has made a lot of contributions to Wang Jun. When Wang Jun was studying for a graduate student, his family disagreed. Pan Xiaochen secretly gave the money.
In order to support Wang Jun to study for graduate school, Pan Xiaochen, a college student majoring in plants, has embarked on the "no return" of selling insurance.
My girlfriend has given so much for herself, and Wang Jun still wants to break up, so he has no position in terms of emotion.
I want to break up but I dare not break up, and I don’t know how to break up.
Wang Jun's unhappiness eventually turned into cold violence. Escape home, avoid communicating with Pan Xiaochen, and escape from all Pan Xiaochen's intimacy.
In the end, Wang Jun's resistance spread psychologically to physiologically. It was also the physiological "incompetence" that made Wang Jun decide to set up a situation and let Pan Xiaochen break up.
Think about it carefully, Wang Jun’s cold violence escape is not something that is available now.
When the two graduated from college, their family urged them to get married, but Wang Jun started to go to graduate school on a whim.
After finishing graduate school, he did not pursue a better career and unexpectedly became a veterinarian. Now, studying for a postgraduate student isn’t it an excuse for Wang Jun to escape from marriage?
In Pan Xiaochen's mouth, she and Wang Jun were together for seven years. In the past seven years, the family has been urging her to get married, but Wang Jun has never let it go.
insisted on not getting married for seven years. In these seven years of love, putting aside the passionate love period, Wang Jun has been dragging Pan Xiaochen lukewarmly for the rest of the time.
Wang Jun's cold violence is to put it bluntly, just to force Pan Xiaochen to break up in disguise.
He would go to the postgraduate entrance examination at the beginning, but he probably went there with the idea of forcing Pan Xiaochen to break up. Unexpectedly, Pan Xiaochen not only did not break up, but also sold insurance for him to go to school.
Why does living with Pan Xiaochen put Wang Jun into a physical condition that he is so stressed that he is "incompetent"? In my opinion, there are two reasons.
On the one hand, because Pan Xiaochen's overly bloody attitude towards life made his good girlfriend feel a strong "mother-like" when she arrived in front of Wang Jun.
This "mother-in-law" made Wang Jun rebellious.
On the other hand, Pan Xiaochen's excellence makes Wang Jun unable to find any sense of accomplishment.
Everyone praised Pan Xiaochen, and their parents also praised her. If they weren't too satisfied with their future daughter-in-law, how could Wang Jun's parents urged them to get married every now and then.
plus Pan Xiaochen's income is far higher than that of Wang Jun, who is a veterinarian. It would be fine if Pan Xiaochen arranged everything, but she would be suppressed by everything.
Wang Jun's self-esteem as a man was beaten to nothing in front of Pan Xiaochen.
Facing Pan Xiaochen's strength, Wang Jun wanted to fight hard, but did not have the courage to fight.
Long-term psychological hints, as well as long-term psychological depression, will eventually develop physiologically, so it is not difficult to understand.
03: In order to break up, seducing Pan Xiaochen to be "Pan Jinlian" is Wang Jun's biggest malicious
Pan Xiaochen's strength, and his attitude towards life that is bloody will definitely not be formed in one day.
is just that during the passionate love period, Wang Jun can tolerate and tolerate it.
But after the passionate love period, Wang Jun only saw Pan Xiaochen's strength and his full desire to control him.
Pan Xiaochen's beauty, positivity, and considerate towards him are all "invisible" in the eyes of Wang Jun who has passed the passionate love period. What
is followed by is abominable.
I want to break up between a couple, this is the norm of emotions.
But Wang Jun shouldn't have been absolutely necessary, and he actually wanted to stand on the commanding heights of morality and "force" Pan Xiaochen to break up.
was cold violence at the beginning, but later he colluded with other men to set up a plan for Pan Xiaochen.
And this situation set up by Wang Jun is full of malicious intentions.
He actually called Yang Wanqing to transform into "Ximen Qing" to lure Pan Xiaochen. Wang Jun had only one purpose, that is, to turn Pan Xiaochen into "Pan Jinlian".
In order to induce Pan Xiaochen to cheat, Wang Jun, the real boyfriend, "selled" his girlfriend in front of Yang Wanqing.
can be said to be as big as hobbies and small as the measurement size.
Wang Jun's behavior is to put it directly, it is to materialize his girlfriend and indirectly "transfer" his girlfriend to other men.
just wanted to break up and plotted against his girlfriend like this. Wang Jun's cruelty is real.
Wang Jun and Yang Wanqing are just ordinary friends I met in the game. Without knowing Yang Wanqing's character, he asked him to seduce Pan Xiaochen.
If Yang Wanqing is a scumbag, what situation will Pan Xiaochen face?
Let’s take another ten thousand steps back. How good can a man who can make such a shameless deal with Wang Jun?
If Pan Xiaochen really enters the game, then the consequences she has to bear are really hard to imagine.
Wang Jun’s sudden awakening is not so much a sudden awakening, but rather that he cannot accept it. Pan Xiaochen, who is "worrying" him, will choose other men.
He kept saying that he loved Pan Xiaochen. If a man really loved a woman, how could he push her into unpredictable danger so recklessly?
The love mentioned by Wang Jun is ridiculous.
