If there is a choice, no one likes to leave their hometown and work hard in other places, and no one likes to live in different places with his wife, children and children. But life is not only ideals, but also pressure, so many people have to leave their hometowns and make a living in a foreign land.
Many families are actually not perfect. Some wives take care of their children at home and husbands go out to work. They have only a short time to spend together for a busy year. In some families, couples go out to work together, leaving only the elderly and children to rely on each other in their hometown.
But no matter which one it is, it is a silent harm for children and the elderly. Although many people know that it is not good to separate from their families, who can not bow their heads in front of life?
Recently, in Suzhou, Anhui, the daily life of a woman and her husband separated from each other for a long time touched the hearts of many netizens. In order to make money, the husband worked in other places for a long time, and the wife of the elderly and the wife took care of housework at home alone. This kind of separation between the two places can be said to show the true portrayal of many families.
According to the woman, she and her husband have been separated from each other for a long time. For the various expenses of life and the burden of the family, her husband can only work outside the country to subsidize the family. Although she wants to be together, the high expenses are not something her family can afford.
is forced to make a living. Because of helplessness, the woman can only take care of her children at home to manage all the affairs of the family, and her husband works alone to earn money to support the family.
But what makes the woman feel uncomfortable is that she and her husband have been separated for a long time, but the relationship between the two has not increased. Other people's husbands work outside and talk to their wife almost every day to ask about their family's condition to care about their wife's health. But her husband doesn't even talk about greetings and messages, even calls or text messages.
In the woman's own words, as long as the husband leaves home and goes to work in another place, the person will disappear. He has no phone number, text message, no greetings, and he has almost no contact, and he never asks how he and his children are at home.
After hearing this situation, many people said bluntly that this man must be floating outside with colorful flags, otherwise how could he not care about his wife? Even if you don’t care about your wife, there is no way that your children don’t care about them.
This situation is most likely that a man has already had a behavior outside that the woman does not know. Just like the "temporary couple" that is common in many factories and construction sites now, the man is responsible for daily consumption, while the woman is only responsible for the man's daily life.
Some people also think that women are a bit arrogant. If their husbands do not contact them, then contact their husbands by themselves. Only when the couple is in close contact can they enhance their relationship. Otherwise, if only a " marriage certificate " is maintained, something will happen sooner or later.
The soul cannot be accommodated in a foreign land, and the body cannot be retained in the hometown, so in this world, there is wandering and distant place!
Indeed, in this world, there are many people with bad intentions, but there are also many people who are good at self-discipline. Especially for the person next to you, trust is the most important thing. If a couple loses trust, then this relationship will be equivalent to coming to an end.
The biggest root cause of these things a woman and her husband encounter is the lack of communication. After all, some people are just not good at speaking and do not have too much intention to coax people, but they cannot judge a person's good or bad by this.
In fact, many times, small contradictions slowly grow into big contradictions through lack of communication. Since you want your husband's concern and greetings, the woman will directly raise her dissatisfaction, so that a person can recognize his mistakes and have the opportunity to correct them.
