Although many people scratch their heads when they mention conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, today there is a pair of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who is really enviable. When this Northeast mother-in-law went to entertain the daughter-in-law in Fujian for the first time, she prepared a lot of good dishes and wine. The two of them fell in love with each other as soon as they met. They ate and drank while chatting and laughing. Many netizens said that this is not mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but this is a sister!
After reading these, do you think it is not that difficult to get along with the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? This mother-in-law from Northeast China taught her experience and said that if she wanted to get along well with her daughter-in-law, she had to treat her with sincerity. She said that when she was preparing this meal, she fully understood the habits of her daughter-in-law with her son, so the two of them could get the same at first sight. Moreover, when preparing the meal, she also prepared according to what her daughter-in-law likes to eat, and did not take into account the tastes of others. After reading these, I have to say that this mother-in-law has a relatively high emotional intelligence. Let's take everyone to see what the first meal of this mother-in-law entertains her daughter-in-law.
Because her daughter-in-law is from Fujian, her taste will be lighter. When preparing seafood, she only uses one method, which is steaming. When buying these shrimps and crabs, they choose fresher and more expensive ones. In this way, even if you simply boil them and steam them, the taste will be very good. The most important point is that when the daughter-in-law enters the house, the Northeast mother-in-law asked, "What kind of sauce do you like to eat, I will help you make this detail just right."
Then it was stir-frying, and I made an boiled meat slice . This boiled meat slice is not the common type. It is very light. The bottom of the bowl is covered with bean sprouts and bean skins, and there is a layer of meat on top. There are also some millet spicy and leeks on the top. However, the millet spicy here is completely for the sake of looking more beautiful. It does not play a role in seasoning. The main reason is that the mother-in-law considers that the taste of her daughter-in-law is light, so when making the boiled meat slices, she did not add any chili.
Finally, there are two dishes to serve, one is meat and the other is ham sausage. This ham sausage is a very common type. Everyone knows that Harbin red sausage is more famous, and Dalian is not particularly far from Harbin, so locals also like to eat this red sausage . In addition, this meat is braised outside. After buying it, cut it, put some sauce and stir it. Then I prepared a small cucumber for clear mouth. Although this meal is also very simple, every dish reveals the care of this Northeast mother-in-law. Think about it carefully, even if you are this Fujian girl, will you be moved by this hospitality mother-in-law? Because of the first time we had a very happy conversation, will the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law be easy to deal with in the future?
In fact, in general, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should not be natural enemies. They should be the best friends, the best partners, and the best sisters. It is the best to be able to sit together and drink and have fun. If you really have a desire, then not disturbing each other is also a better way to get along.
