In a relationship, love and not love are always different. When a man is really moved and recognizes this woman, he will do his best to fight for it without hesitation. No matter what obstacles he faces, he will not change his mind. When a man doesn't love a woman, no matter how much a woman does, it will be futile. All she welcomes is the indifference and perfunctory man.
Therefore, it seems pale and powerless to reason in relationships, a person who loves you will not give him much. No matter how much you give, no matter how much you give, it will be in vain. In love, it is particularly obvious whether a man really loves you, especially when a man has these three "active" things in you, which means he must be in his heart.
1. Taking the initiative to approach you is so love that it is difficult to control yourself
A person's mouth can speak sweet words and lies, but his body is often very honest. If a couple is together, a man is always unwilling to approach his wife on his own initiative, even if his wife takes the initiative to approach her husband, the husband will dodge intentionally or unintentionally. This means that he actually does not recognize his wife in his heart. In short, he does not really take his wife to heart.
A man who will resist you physically will naturally not have your place in his heart, let alone taking the initiative to walk towards you and making it difficult to control himself in front of you? If you take a closer look at those couples in love, you can't wait to stick together at all times. When you go shopping, you either hug or hold hands, and even when you watch a movie, you must lean tightly together.
A kind of physical interaction is actually a way of emotional communication. A man who can take the initiative to get close to you not only likes you, but also has a certain weight in his heart, which makes him unable to help but want to get close.
Adults clearly understand that when they truly love someone, they do not say a lot of sweet words, but they have enough weight in their hearts. They may not necessarily shout about how much they love you every day, but their actions are all about caring and love for you.
2. Actively giving is a firm love
If a woman is an emotional animal, then a man must be a rational animal. Everything he does is weighed repeatedly. No matter when and where they have a scale in their hearts. Only when interests are equal can they want to give equally. When a man forgets the interests but blindly pays on a woman, it means that the man really falls in love with this woman.
In fact, everyone understands it very well in their feelings. If a man doesn’t love you, he will be impatient and perfunctory in any aspect, and he will also be reluctant to waste time and money on a woman. When he truly loves a woman, he will always put the woman’s feelings and thoughts first, take the initiative to care and show kindness, and spend money in vain.
The man who truly loves you always feels that he doesn’t give you enough, and the man who doesn’t love you, giving a little bit is like a huge effort. A man who loves you is heart-wrenching and proactive in giving you. This is not only love for you, but also firmness and trust in this relationship, because he has already recognized you, no matter how hard it is, he will spare no matter how hard it is.
3. Take the initiative to accompany you, this is the guardian of love
It is said that companionship is the longest confession. When a person reaches a certain age, he will find that time is the most precious. Many things can be exchanged in a similar way, but time is irreversible. If a man always tells you next time, then you must not be that important in his heart. Those who really care will cherish it and seize all the time you can use to accompany the loved ones.
Time is like water in a sponge, there is always squeeze, and no one can never accompany their lover all year round. Women should be clear-headed that a person who always tells you that he is very busy and has to do a lot of things, most of the time he just doesn't want to spend on you. To put it bluntly, you are dispensable in his heart.
You should know that being with the person you like in love is a kind of happiness rather than a burden. A man who is willing to take the initiative to spend time with you to do some trivial matters in life means that you have a certain weight in his heart. It is precisely because he has you in his heart that he feels that companionship is a sweet and beautiful thing, because companionship is a kind of protection of love. Talking about the words in his heart and talking about interesting things in life is a kind of happiness between couples.
How short is life? You must find someone who loves you to spend the rest of your life. Every day you are with the person you love is worth looking forward to, and every day you are with the person you don’t love is torment.
