I was born in the countryside, and later I married my wife. My marriage with my wife was arranged by my parents. Because my parents thought my wife was very honest, they asked me to marry my wife. After I got married with my wife, I went out to work because my wife was pregnant at that time and there were many places that needed to spend money. I couldn’t make much money in the countryside, so it was more reliable to work.
At that time, I was working alone outside. I worked as a plaster worker at a construction site. I was very tired from work, but my income was OK. I had several thousand yuan a month, which was enough for the family to spend. Time flies. In the blink of an eye, I also worked on the construction site for more than ten years. I basically didn’t want to spend the money I earned. Later, I built a house for my family. After the house was built, I didn’t want to work outside anymore because I felt that working outside was too tiring. I missed my family very much and wanted to live with my family.
Because I have been working outside for a long time and have been living apart with my wife, so after I went back, I didn’t know how to get along with my wife, and I found that my wife’s temper became more and more strange. She lost her temper at any time and threw things. I really can’t stand my wife’s temper. I have talked to my wife, and I hope she will change her temper, otherwise it will be really not good, but my wife just doesn’t listen. My wife said that her temper can’t change it. I couldn't bear it anymore after
, and then I went out to work. After I went out, I didn't find a job. In the end, there was no way, so I could only work as a male nanny. When I first started working as a male nanny , I was embarrassed to talk to others about my job. I was afraid that others would laugh at me. At that time, I was a nanny with a monthly leave of 4 days and a monthly salary of 8,000 yuan. This salary was really high, but when I heard about this salary, I was very happy.
My employer is an old lady. She is 15 years older than me. Her temper is not very good. She often loses her temper. However, I took her money, so I had to serve her well. Even if she lost her temper at me, I silently endured it. Once, she even hit me and I didn’t dare to fight back. I stood there alone. The employer behind was moved by my good temper. Then she also felt that it was not easy for me, so she began to treat me slowly.
Because the employer has been gradually being nice to me, I have also been more kind to my employer, worked hard to do my job well, and tried hard to take good care of my employer. At that time, the employer often took me out for travel, and the employer would often buy clothes for me. The employer treated me as a younger brother. I like that feeling very much.
After serving the employer for three years, the employer actually confessed to me. That day, the employer asked me to prepare a lot of dishes. At the beginning, I thought my friend came to play at home, and the employer came back with a bouquet of roses, and then confessed to me seriously. I was surprised at that time. I told the employer that I have a wife and I can't be with her. Unexpectedly, the employer said that she didn't mind that I had a wife, as long as I was by her side and treated her well.
I asked the employer to give me some time to think, because things happened so suddenly that I couldn't give the answer immediately. I spent a month thinking, and later I decided to be with the employer. After we were together, I told the employer that I wanted to marry her. If I didn't have an marriage certificate , I would feel insecure, and the employer also supported me with this idea. Later, she asked me to file for divorce with my original wife. I really did this. At the beginning, my wife was unwilling to divorce, and she kept making trouble, but I was determined to divorce her. No matter how she made a fuss, it was useless. Later, she had no choice but to agree to divorce me.
After I divorced my original wife, I got married with my employer. We lived a happy life after we got married. The employer bought me a car, and I often drove out to play with her. At that time, I couldn't bear it anymore and went to be a male nanny, but I didn't expect that I would unexpectedly gain happiness later. I cherish my current life very much. I feel that I am very happy now. I finally lived the life of the rich people I yearn for.