Preface:
53-year-old nanny said that she had seen it with her own eyes. Many elderly people are really sad when they get old. What's going on? Let’s take a look together!
53-year-old Aunt Lin said:
I am a nanny, and I have been a nanny for more than ten years. When I first started working as a nanny, the treatment of the nanny was not very good, and the social status was still very low, and I was often looked down upon by others. At that time, I really had no choice, so I worked as a nanny. The nanny market has been very popular in recent years. Many employers realize the importance of nanny and have begun to respect nanny. Moreover, nanny’s salary has increased a lot compared to the past. Nowadays, nanny basically has a salary of more than 5,000 yuan every month. So now many rural women are working as nannys and want to make some money by being nannys.
I have served many employers over the years, but most of them serve the elderly. As I have seen with my own eyes, many elderly people will be really sad when they get old.
A few years ago, I served an aunt. The aunt was 76 years old. Her son worked abroad and never came back once a year. Her wife had passed away. Then she lived alone. Later, she fell to her feet when she went downstairs and broke her bones. It became very difficult to walk. So she asked me to be her nanny. When I was her nanny, she often told me about her son. She said that her son was very capable and was the first in the class when she was studying. Later, she was admitted to a prestigious university and graduated from university. After the career, she also went abroad. She said that her son had achieved a lot of achievements over the years. As she talked, her tears came down. Later, she said weakly that she would rather his son be an ordinary person and be with her. Her son only came back to see her once a year or two. Usually, her son was too busy at work and didn't even have time to call her. She missed her son very much, but she didn't know what to do. During the holidays, the aunt usually hid in the room and cried. Although the aunt was rich, she was very unhappy. Looking at her like that, I felt very distressed. The aunt behind
passed away. Before that aunt passed away, her dream was to meet her son, and her son also tried hard to get back, but the flight was delayed. When she returned home, the aunt was no longer there. I remember that before the aunt passed away, she looked very reluctant. Every time I think about it, I feel very uncomfortable. I served an old man behind
. The old man had several children, but his children were unwilling to take care of him, and even didn't want to come back to see him. The old man said he was helpless. He said that he had some savings and gave them to his children later, but because of the uneven distribution, his children had objections to him, so he was unwilling to pay attention to him. The old man also wanted to live with his children. He was even willing to give his children some money every month to let his children take care of him, but his children just didn't want to take care of him, even if it was useless to give money, so he could only hire a nanny. When I knew the old man's experience, I sympathized with him.
I also served an old man, and that old man was also very pitiful. The old man’s daughter-in-law was the kind of person who was not easy to get along with. The old man had been living with them for a while before. At that time, his daughter-in-law always targeted him and despised him for being unclean. The old man behind had no choice but to go back to his own home to live. When the old man got older, it became very difficult to take care of himself, so the old man invited me to be his nanny. I often saw the old man sitting on the balcony and staring downstairs, looking at the old man’s lonely back, I felt that he was really pitiful.
Many elderly people are really sad when they get old. I hope young people will be more considerate of their parents, respect their parents more, so that their parents can enjoy their old age.
