I am Brother Hui, and I make an appointment with you every day to have an emotional world. I have a story, do you have wine?
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Introduction: Love is like a fire, which may warm both parties in love, and may burn them to ashes.
Some people in life are called " Love Brain ". They believe in the concept of love first. In order to accompany and satisfy each other in love, they can pay all their own prices, even their own lives.
The behavior of "Love Brain" is very terrifying, because the love thoughts have invaded her bone marrow, controlled every nerve of her, made her lose her mind, and thus became crazy.
Once these people fall in love, they ignore ethics and morals, public order and good customs, and even if they are in marriage, they cannot let her have any concerns. In their world, work is not important, family is not important, and life is not important. Only love is the most sacred and worthy of her pursuit.
However, life is not a fantasy, impulse is a devil. Behind their willingness to travel for love, what they pay is the harm to their family and family, and the heavy price they are ridiculed.
The author recently saw a program online telling the story of a young and beautiful young woman going through fire and water for love. Let’s take a look at what truths can we read through her story.
01, flash marriage
Liu Gui is 36 years old, works in electrician work, and usually contracts some small hydropower projects, and his annual income is considerable.
Gui Ren Liu is more loyal and honest, introverted, and doesn’t make many friends. In addition to work, he just goes home to do housework and helps take care of his children.
But it is such a good man from the Gu family who has experienced a failed marriage. His ex-wife thought he was dull and not romantic, and he was not humorous. He eventually betrayed during marriage and left a child.
After that, Liu Gui took his daughter to rely on each other. In addition to making money from work, he became both a father and a mother in life, and took care of everything at home.
Four years ago, Liu Gui met Huang Ling, a girl from the countryside who was 11 years younger than her due to work. At that time, Huang Ling's youth and beauty left a deep impression on him, and then the two began to date by chance.
After dating for a while, Liu Gui revealed his marriage experience to Huang Ling. Huang Ling said that he was interested in his personality and did not care about his previous experience. So after the two of them agreed to the woman's parents, they quickly entered the marriage hall.
On the day of the wedding, Liu Gui's relatives and friends were happy for him to marry a young, beautiful and sensible wife, and he also shed tears happily.
02, Bolt from the Blue
Shortly after marriage, Huang Ling gave birth to a son for Liu Gui. Liu Gui, who had both children, suddenly felt no regrets in life. He was grateful for his wife's efforts to the family, so he devoted all his energy to his work, hoping to give his wife and children a good future through his own efforts.
Although Huang Ling is young and has her own children, she does not dislike the daughter she gave birth to before, but treats her as a family to take care of her. The life of men farming and women weaving makes this family of four full of warmth.
In order to make money, Liu Gui would also take over the hydropower projects in the next county town. Sometimes he went there for a few months, and he rarely went home. Gradually, he found that his wife began to become cold to him. Sometimes he wanted to call to ask about the situation at home. His wife either did not answer the phone or just dealt with it perfunctorily, which made him feel a little worried.
In July this year, Liu Gui, who was working, suddenly received an anonymous text message with several photos attached to the text message. In the photo, the wife is lying in the arms of a man, her behavior is intimate and her eyes are full of love.
This man Liu Gui is not unfamiliar with him. He is a relatively famous "God of Gambling" in the village. He usually makes a living by gambling. I heard that he has won a lot of money in recent years. Not only did he build a new villa in the village, but he also bought a luxury car.
Seeing these photos, Liu Gui's head buzzed and felt dizzy. He quickly put down his work and called a car to rush home overnight.
03. Fierce conflict
After Liu Gui arrived at home, he found that his wife was not at home and did not answer the call. In desperation, he had to call his father-in-law, who told him that Huang Ling had already brought his two children back to his mother's house.
Liu Gui came to his father-in-law's house anxiously and met his wife sitting there watching TV on the second floor. When his wife saw Liu Gui coming unexpectedly, she did not show any surprises she hadn't seen for many days. Instead, she left the room and walked downstairs.
When Liu Gui came outside the house, he grabbed his wife and wanted to ask about the photos, but unexpectedly his wife suddenly got angry. She tried her best to shake off Liu Gui's hand and smashed the small chair on the ground at him. When she saw that she didn't hit her, she picked up the bowl on the table and smashed it hard at him.
Liu Gui didn't dare to say too much, nor did he dare to resist. He just avoided the things his wife smashed over and approached her. But unexpectedly, when she was about to get close to her wife, she slapped her hard in the face.
Father-in-law was so angry when she saw her daughter being so angry and her son-in-law was so cowardly that she couldn't stand it. He used to stop his daughter's willful behavior and scold her severely. The mother-in-law kept wiping her tears while watching her daughter's fight.
Seeing her parents' efforts to stop her, Huang Ling angrily scolded her, telling them that her marriage with Liu Gui was not happy and told them not to care about her family affairs.
04. After the storm, Liu Gui and the reporter came to the home of the "God of Gambling" and wanted to confront him. It turned out that his door was closed and he was not at home.
reporter then called the "God of Gambling". On the phone, he denied his ambiguous relationship with Huang Ling, and at the same time made it clear that he would not break up his family for her.
Liu Gui returned to his father-in-law's house, told his wife to reply in a "God of Gambling", and knelt in front of his wife, begging her to return to the family for the sake of the children and for the complete family.
Seeing this, the father-in-law and mother-in-law also began to persuade their daughter, saying that since they have a husband and a family, they should be content with themselves and not think about the colorful world outside. Moreover, the affairs of his daughter have caused a lot of trouble in the city, which has made them lose face in the village, so that they have been washing their faces with tears in the past few months and are in panic all day long.
Faced with her husband's plea and her parents' kind advice, Huang Ling, with a strong personality, said that she would not break up other people's families, but would not live with Liu Gui anymore. All she wants to do now is to end her marriage as soon as possible and start a new life.
Facing his wife's determination and recalling her previous love, Liu Gui felt helpless, but he felt helpless.
Huang Ling said that she was willing to leave the house with nothing, as long as her husband agreed to agree to a divorce with her. Liu Gui felt sorry for his wife and told her about the difficulties of a woman living alone, but Huang Ling said, "This is my life!"
Liu Gui finally agreed to his wife's decision and signed an divorce agreement with her. Then, he gave his wife a deep hug to show his gratitude for her past efforts and his deep reluctance.
Huang Ling passively accepted Liu Gui's embrace, and then left alone without looking back, leaving everyone with a resolute figure.
For Huang Ling, he may feel that he has gotten what he wants and can pursue his love unscrupulously in the future. But can this freedom exchanged for harm to her family and family really bring her inner peace and peace of life?
answers we have no way to know now, we can only wait for the reply from time.
Hui Ge commented on
The famous sociologist, my grandmother, said: " Love requires careful consideration, and marriage requires a good match. Marriage determined by impulsiveness will eventually be lost. " deeply agrees.
One is a divorced middle-aged uncle and the other is an ignorant and beautiful girl. The combination of the two may be one for wealth and the other for appearance. In addition, the man's loyalty and honesty after marriage, running around and not understanding the charm, made his wife lack company at home and unable to feel love. In the end, because of the care of another man, he chose to go to love like a moth to the flame, causing the bitter fruits in marriage.
The breakdown of a marriage is not a unilateral responsibility, and it is also difficult to tell who is right and who is wrong. Before Huang Ling betrayed her family, she was actually a woman who was dedicated to taking care of her children and was at ease in her family. It was just because of the "love brain" that I finally chose to do whatever it takes for love.
The union of marriage is the dependence between two people's bodies, the companionship of life, and the integration of souls. If you cannot reach spiritual resonance and cannot empathize with in thought, then the bumps and bumps in life will become a huge crisis of the breakdown of marriage.
Of course, no matter what, since you have entered marriage, you should abide by the bottom line of loyalty, follow ethical standards, always restrain your behavior, and give your lover and family a solid support.
Today's topic: If you were Liu Gui, what choice would you make? Everyone is welcome to write your shining opinions in the comment section!
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