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Maintaining a relationship is often not an easy task. Both parties need to devote themselves and make efforts to the end.
However, it is easy to destroy a relationship. If a party has any withdrawal and consumes this relationship at will, it will be easily broken.
Many people attribute love to fate, think that all love is dominated by fate, believing that what is yours is yours, and it is difficult to grasp what is not yours, even if you try your best.
Indeed, love will be affected by many factors. It is difficult for us to control things like heartbeat. Everything in the world can be obtained through hard work, but love cannot do it.
But if you always treat love with a negative attitude, then it is only a matter of time to miss it, and it is difficult for you to have true love for a long time.
Maintaining love requires a variety of factors. You don’t have to be serious about everything when you are together. Sometimes you can keep a relationship by turning a blind eye appropriately.
However, there are some things that cannot be ignored. Once lost, the relationship will come to an end.
For example, if you don’t have this thing, your fate will be over.
There is a secret in the phone, which is the beginning of suspicion
Nowadays, most of the secrets of people are in the phone. Some people say: No one can smile from the phone.
Everyone cannot live without mobile phones. Mobile phones have become a necessity in people's lives. While facilitating people, many secrets and contradictions have also emerged.
chat records, ambiguous objects, and various social software emerge one after another, making dating convenient, social distance, and there are gaps in emotions.
TV series " Thirty Only ", when Xu Huanshan always smiled at his phone. When he began to become a mobile phone, the secret he hidden in his phone began to be exposed at that moment.
Usually, in the relationship, whether a person has changed his mind is often discovered through some details on his mobile phone.
For example, he changed his mobile phone password and even took a shower. He looked at his mobile phone more frequently, often staring at his mobile phone or smirking. There was an avatar you had never seen before in his mobile phone, and he began to have a habit of deleting chat history. These are signs.
The moment when there is a secret in the phone, it is the beginning of suspicion, and from this moment on, the relationship between the two begins to rift.
When doubt breeds, trust collapses.
In the relationship between two people, it should be 100% trust, no suspicion or concealment, you will take the initiative to report whatever you do, and I will not doubt you no matter where you go.
A benign emotion should be like this. Mutual trust will never hide anything from each other. Even if you hear about the changeable betrayal, you will surely not happen to you.
And when one party starts to doubt the other party and gets stuck in his heart, the relationship is in danger. In the TV series "The Second Hug", Fang Yuan had complete trust in Li Cheng at the beginning and never thought of giving up this marriage. When Li Cheng was in the most difficult time, he would rather sell his house than spend it with him.
She told Li Cheng not to hide himself and to actively communicate with anything, but it was a pity that Li Cheng did not do it.
The first time when Jin Lu saw Li Cheng having dinner with the opposite sex alone, Fang Yuan chose to believe him.
Later, when she began to want to peek at Li Cheng's mobile phone, when she started to disbelief of what Li Cheng said, her trust completely collapsed.
In love, there is no slight doubt. What you want is one hundred loyalty. Even if you have such a flash of thought in your heart, and trust is destroyed, it will be difficult to rebuild.
In the next time, you will no longer believe what the other party does or says. At this time, your relationship will only have frequent problems, and it will gradually decline.
Friendship, without trust, the foundation will be lost
Trust has always been the cornerstone of a relationship. Without trust, the relationship will lose its foundation, and it will only be a matter of time before it collapses.
Two people can have no money together, their personalities can be different, and there will be conflicts and disputes. These are normal things.
There has never been two people who are exactly the same, there will be no love, and there has never been a quarrel. Even if it is a good marriage, there will be moments of wanting to give up.
As long as the trust is there, both parties have achieved absolute loyalty, then even the deepest conflict can be resolved.
And once there is suspicion and suspicion in this relationship, once the trust disappears, even if it is trivial matters, it will cause huge disputes. In the end, both parties will feel tired, and finally, until one party is completely disappointed and proposes to separate, the treatment relationship will be completely declared over.
From the moment trust collapses, it is like a borer growing inside, which is always broken from the inside out and can no longer make up for it.
There is no small matter in the relationship, and a little bit of trouble may affect the relationship between two people.
There is no earth-shaking event in love, it is nothing but trivial matters, but it is enough to destroy a love.
Loyalty is the basic of love, and trust is the foundation of love. These two points often directly determine whether two people can continue to move forward.
Once loyalty is violated and trust is destroyed, even the happiest two people will end up being parted ways.
