My boyfriend actually said such words proved that he had hesitated for a long time and thought for a long time. In other words, he has given up on this relationship. If you still love him, if you still like him very much, you can keep him. I hope he can change his mind, if your love for him is not special. Then I think you can let it go.
break up if it is not suitable is a normal mentality . In fact, the most important thing when in love is love. If you don’t love, you will only be together for the time being and will not be together for the rest of your life. It is just because the two people fall in love that they will accommodate each other and make changes for each other. In fact, when you say it is not suitable, you just don’t love it. Inappropriate is just an excuse. But these two people who don’t seem to be suitable for each other are “suitable” together. Because this is appropriate, it is tolerant and accommodating each other, and to make concessions and changes for each other.
In fact, love requires two people to work together, because there is no man or woman born suitable, after falling in love, you need to change yourself for the other person, such as personality and temper. If an inappropriate love does not break up actively, it will eventually break up passively. Although this statement is cruel, this is the reality. Some people always think that love is hard-won, and since you are in love, you should cherish it. This process requires patience, true love, deep love, compassion, wisdom, concentration, and two people who are both open-minded and open-minded and understand love can be implemented together.
Some people have no equal appearance or education, but as long as two people are in love, it is appropriate. They are afraid that they can't be together. If they can be together, they can defeat the inappropriate ones together and work together to become a suitable lover for their whole life. When both of you love each other deeply, you will work hard to make changes, move forward in the best direction, correct them together, and work them together to turn those inappropriate things into suitable ones. However, when two inappropriate people are together, they have different intentions at all. It’s just that one of them cherishes love, and the other is destroying love in disguise. Then the final outcome of love must be breaking up.
The final result of two people who are inappropriate is breaking up. Instead of having a very embarrassing thing in the end, it is better to end up decently early. Only inappropriate love can make way for the right love, and you can meet the love that suits you earlier. We often say that love should be more realistic. In fact, we should take the initiative to examine whether love is necessary to continue. This realistic psychology is something that everyone should have. Otherwise, you have been in love with someone alone and love them so much that you can't extricate yourself, but she breaks up with you, and you will eventually be unable to get out of the shadow of love.
