One has the habit of gambling. Gambling is illegal in our country. Once I get stuck in gambling, this family will be defeated one day. Throughout history, there have been many happy families, because some people in the family have become gambling habits, and they all end up in the broken family and the separation of their wives and children. We all know that gambling is a bottomless pit. No matter how rich a person is, once he is addicted to gambling, he will lose everything overnight. What makes people feel most distressed is that gambling addiction is as hard as sticky bones.
There is a disharmonious relationship between husband and wife. A harmonious family must be the result of a love and tolerance relationship between husband and wife. But if the couple has a bad relationship, quarrels every day, work hard all day, and the family is in chaos, you will not have the energy to strive for a career. A truly enviable marriage is that both husband and wife do not dislike each other, understand each other, share honor and disgrace, do not quarrel or complain. However, no matter what the reason causes the couple to be in disagreement, the final outcome is undoubtedly the bankruptcy of the marriage. If you have a child, it will be lifelong damage.
Third, there is no family style. Nowadays, many families have only one child, so many people spoil their children. After all, only children are reasonable. However, children who are overly spoiled will develop a conceited personality and thus form an obedient and domineering and weird personality. There is nothing wrong with loving children, but this excessive spoiling cannot guide children correctly, but will instead make children lose their correct outlook on life and values. If they grow in a family without family tradition, they will be like wild trees on the roadside and weeds in the region. In today's words, it is called "free stocking". Jackie Chan will go to heaven, and when he becomes a snake, he will drill into grass and then put it. This is undoubtedly shocking.
4 is a discord between brothers and sisters. In today's society, we often see that there are always such families, where descendants go to court for their family property, and even turn against each other in the end. Originally, blood is thicker than water, and unity is strength, but it is a pity to become such a messy situation. Only when a family unites and strives to have more leaders for the prosperity of the family can the family prosper. If family members cannot help each other well, the results can be imagined.
Summary
We should adhere to scientific concepts in inheriting common language culture. In daily life, we often hear various folk sayings. These proverbs may be related to our production and life, or they may teach people how to be a human being and tell the truth of life. In short, the birth of every proverb has its social background and its value at that time, but it is precisely because of different historical periods and different events that many statements are not correct. We should analyze and understand dialectically based on science.
It is not difficult to see that the ancients' summary was insightful. Even with the rapid development of technology today, human nature is still a topic worthy of in-depth research. These discussions about human nature have not only benefited so far, but I think even in another hundred years, they will still benefit endlessly. As an integral part of the family, each family member plays an irreplaceable role in the prosperity of the family. A thousand-mile dike collapses in an ant hole, so don’t be hungry.
