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Rousseau in "Emier" wrote: A woman can use cosmetics to make her show off, but to gain the favor of others, she also depends on her character.
There are many women in life who regard beauty as their most favorable capital and try to gain more value with their outstanding appearance.
But you will find that men are not stupid. They appreciate beautiful women, but when it comes to really like and willing to marry them home, they should pay more attention to the other person's character.
So, young and beautiful are never the greatest capital of women. The real charm is the attraction emitted from the bones and the convincingness of outstanding character, which is not available to those vases that are just like it.
In life, we often find that some women are quite old, but they are very young, and they look at least ten years younger than their peers.
This is because they are good at managing their mentality and looking for something that makes them happy, so that they look more brilliant.
And many women, even though they are not old, are like a flower that withered early, living a life of discussing other people's family affairs and gossiping together early.
Why are the lifestyles of women so different?
observations found that the older the woman, the more attractive she is, must have done these three things well, and there is no other shortcut.
Guan Wenjun , 46 years old, teacher: The most important thing for older women to leave is maintenance, and they must pay attention to maintenance.
After giving birth, I obviously found that my physiological and mental states were declining, and I looked very energetic.
plus taking care of the child, my face became particularly bad, all of them were sallow, and there were a lot of wrinkles on my face.
During that time, my husband was not only unconsidered, but also very cold to me and was very shocked.
So I made up my mind to change this state. After the child was weaned, I started my own maintenance plan.
First of all, moisturizing face creams and eye creams are absolutely indispensable. Only when the skin is "full" with water will it look translucent and rosy.
Also, it is also a must-have for repairing facial masks, especially if you apply an emergency tablet after staying up late, which is particularly effective.
plus, I don’t feel sorry for the money. I often go to the beauty salon with my salary, which also plays a role.
For more than ten years of persistent maintenance and skin care, my face is indeed much smaller than my peers, and I have confidence.
In the school, whenever a new teacher comes in and asks me if I am married, to be honest, I feel a little happy.
My husband and I stand together, but we are much younger than him, and we don’t look like a generation.
It’s because I have taken good care of myself that my husband is kind to me. I obediently hand over my salary, buy me new clothes, and buy skin care products.
Only when women are willing to spend money on themselves and make themselves look more beautiful can men treat you as a treasure.
Zhuo Yilan, 48 years old, studio owner: I think it is mainly based on dressing and outfits. If you dress with temperament, people will naturally look different.
When I work, I will never take my bare face to work, and I will carefully choose every set of clothes.
If the effect I want is not achieved, I will be unmotivated and have no mind to work all day long.
Most of my clothes are light professional outfits, and the combination of tops and skirts is mostly black, gray and khaki.
The upper body of each set of clothes cannot exceed three colors, otherwise it will look particularly complicated and lose its mystery.
For makeup, light makeup is the main focus, highlighting the lips and around the eyes, and other parts are shallowly base.
Many people say that I am very charming and look elegant, which is in line with their imagination of artists.
and even my employees will discuss my outfit behind their backs and guess what clothes I will wear the next day.
Although it sounds more exaggerated, it has to be said that as long as women dress up, they will be full of confidence. This is true.
My husband took me out for social events, and his partners would also praise me for being very elegant and looking young.
So, women should not give up on their pursuit of themselves because they get married, trap themselves in the food, rice, oil and salt, do not dress up, do not put on makeup, and wore pajamas in the kitchen and living room every day.
Of course, it is not that such a woman is not great, but that she has paid too much and has lost her self-worth.
What I do in return is just the husband's cold words and disdain, that would be a loss.
Liu Zhining, 46 years old, beauty salon director: Those who can give women confidence are always careers. Don’t think that men care about appearance. Men are much more realistic than you imagined. If your job is hugely different from him, he will not choose you.
This is all my painful experience. I broke up with me when I fell in love before getting married because he felt that I couldn’t make any move.
So, when I wanted to get married, I chose a man with similar conditions as me.
After marriage, I did not give up my career and became a housewife. Instead, I felt very insecure and urgently needed to find a way to make up for my work.
After several years of hard work, my beauty salon has become larger and larger, and branches have been established in other cities.
Now, my husband will tease me at home, saying that I am the female president of the family, and the whole family must listen to me, otherwise they will have to drink the northwest wind. Although
is a joke, it also reflects my value in my husband's heart from the side. It is precisely because I am excellent enough that he dare not do anything.
If a woman wants to make herself look more attractive, more outstanding and more outstanding, she will keep working hard in her career. These achievements will not betray you.
When you reach a certain level, you will find that your mentality has also improved and your degree of freedom is very high.
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After understanding it, you will find that women who are more attractive as they get older, pay great attention to self-improvement, whether it is on the outside or inside.
They will not focus all their energy on that "one-and-three-point" and revolve around their husbands and children all day long, and compete with their mother-in-law for the sovereignty of the family with their mother-in-law if they have nothing to do.
The older the women, the more attractive they are, all have their own thoughts and careers, which also increases their voice in the family, making them live more and more confident and more charming.
So women, if they want to maintain their self-attractivity and delay aging, they must constantly improve themselves. Don’t give up on themselves before they reach old age and aging before they grow old.
You must remember that as long as you are not convinced of old age and as long as your mentality is young, you can maintain your charm for a long time.
