Author: No. 1 Emotion
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Years pass, love will gradually disappear, replaced by various troubles, as well as various conflicts and quarrels between lovers.
In fact, everyone knows it in their hearts, but they still yearn for the years filled with love, and look forward to meeting the right person and having the ultimate love.
Of course, not all love will be eroded by time, which is why so many people are still going on one after another. It can be seen that love is also divided into levels. Only when you reach the last level can you meet true love.
Of course, this is obviously not an easy thing, otherwise so many people would not have divorced. Therefore, men's love is divided into three levels, except for the last level, the other two are not considered true love.
First layer: Love at first sight
Love at first sight often starts with appearance or figure. If your appearance or figure is not enough, will a man fall in love with you at first sight? This love will inevitably change over time.
Love should be produced under the precipitation of time, and requires mutual understanding. As soon as you start, you say you fall in love. It is most likely that it is a temporary passion, and it is impossible to go long, so it can only be considered the first level.
But will men always fall in love with you at first sight? This is equivalent to love reaching the highest peak at the beginning. With each other's understanding and shortcomings, love will show a downward trend. It is hard to say when it can persist.
So, it is difficult to end such love. Although there is love between each other and the spiritual dependence can be achieved, as time goes by, especially the changes in appearance and figure, love will disappear.
Many times, a man’s love at first sight is a feeling, and he can only stay in the first class, and he cannot even cross this boundary.
Second layer: Love over time
Putting aside love at first sight, everyone will definitely think of love over time. This is also the second level of love. It is like two couples who understand and understand each other, who already know everything about each other, but can still continue to love.
It can be seen that a man’s love has reached the second level. He no longer likes the other person’s appearance, but also falls in love with the inside. With the integration of the three views, each other’s feelings gradually become clear.
But not all love over time can be finally reached. Although they can't let go of each other, they must also combine the social environment at that time and opinions from all aspects. For example, parents think that the family is not suitable for the family, and even if they are in love over time, they will be broken up, and such love will always be ravaged.
Moreover, love over time cannot guarantee that you will receive love for the rest of your life. As the relationship is consumed by time, it will gradually become dull. When this relationship is not enough to support the entire life, love will still disappear and may even turn into a kind of spiritual dependence, but it cannot be regarded as a true love.
The third layer: Life and death
When the love between two people reaches a point of life and death, it means that the two people are no longer able to be affected by the outside world, including the opposition of parents, the erosion of time, etc., it will not affect the determination of the two people to go together.
The most important thing is that we understand and understand each other. No matter what happens, the two hearts are connected, I can know your thoughts, and my thoughts can also be passed on to you. It can be said that it is a level of life and death.
If you truly fall in love with someone, a man will not choose to leave or give up. Even Shan Wuling dares not leave, because the other party has become a part of his life, as important as his own brain and heart, and is indispensable.
Only when you reach the level of "never give up on life and death" can you show that men love each other to the core and women meet the right person.
The most direct manifestation of a man’s love is that you are the one who must be. I would rather end my life than leave you.
In the face of love, if you and a man are just "love at first sight", then don't expect true love. Unless it is "love over time" and only stays at the second level. Only by reaching "never abandon life and death", can you meet the right person.
Of course, this also shows that love is not something that can be achieved overnight. It needs to be tested by time, and after hardships and storms, it still has to be yours and never leave you.
