My friend Tian Wen, married for 6 years. At a party, I met Lin Bo and the two felt good about each other. After that, we added WeChat to each other.
The two often chat together, and Lin Bo sends red envelopes and flowers from time to time. Soon, Tian Wen discovered that she was in love. She suggested that if the two had to be together, they had to divorce and marry her, and that she would have a love of identity.
Lin Bo refused to divorce, so the two broke off contact. Tian Wen moved with her feelings and took two years to get out of the pain.
Since this incident, Tian Wen has never talked to the opposite sex again because she doesn't believe that a married man will divorce and marry her, and does not believe that she will meet love after marriage. She feels so stupid before.
My cousin Yang Bin and wife Huang Juan, they have been married for 8 years and have two cute girls.
Last year, the two went to work in another place and were not in the same place.
Huang Juan could not withstand the temptation of her colleagues and cheated on her. She was seen by others and told Yang Bin.
Yang Bin was so angry that he cried for a few days and beat his wife up. To get a divorce, the two of them did not divorce after being persuaded by their family.
This year, Yang Bin came to the hospital for a sudden illness, and the answer given by the doctor was that he was stimulated and his mind was a little schizophrenia. The reason for being stimulated was that his wife cheated on her, and he would never forget it. Although he chose to forgive her, the relationship between them would never return to the past. Huang Juan regrets her cheating. This will accompany you for a lifetime.
In the information age, you can chat with the opposite sex with just a mobile phone or a chat tool. Chatting is actually toxic and addictive.
After getting addicted, I realized that I would get deeply trapped in it and be unable to extricate myself. I would fall in love with someone. At the least, there would be cheating, and at the worst, there would be a family breakdown. When all your energy is devoted to a third party, you will ignore your family and lover, your marriage will lose its direction, and your mind will disperse, and your family will also disperse.
Married men and women should learn to maintain relationships with the opposite sex. Don’t talk to those who cannot talk to them, and don’t listen to those who cannot believe them.
I saw a video online. A married woman went out for a week without telling her husband and her male best friend. After she came back, her husband sold the house and told the woman that she would divorce her and let her live with her male best friend. The woman was extremely regretful, but the family had already broken up.
Married people, all the way to get along with male and female besties is to cover up. There is no pure friendship between the opposite sex, and there is nothing else except like.
Finishing a family is not easy, don’t split the family just because a third party intervenes. You think it is a very happy thing to think of marrying a mistress after divorce, but only when you live together will you realize that the original wife is the best.
If you don’t love, you can get a divorce. But you can’t wear a girl’s hat for your lover, cheating is a big taboo in marriage. No one will forgive you for your cheating, even if you choose to forgive for the time being, in order to torture you more painfully in the future.
In life, there are many murders caused by a lover's cheating. When you get to prison, you will definitely regret it for impulse, but there is no medicine for regret in the world.
As a rich man, Liu Qiangdong made a mistake and finally changed hands with his own hands. He spent a lot of money and energy, and the gain was not worth the loss.
Marriage is the last destination of love. Getting married means perseverance and responsibility. Protect your own small home and don’t be tempted by the flowers and plants outside. All harmony will last forever.
reminds married men and women: stick to their original aspirations, manage their hearts and bodies well, don’t get flirted with them, and manage their marriage well. Married men cannot touch them, they are poisonous. There are so many sweet words, it is impossible to get divorced and marry you. Women, you must understand that no matter how good or excellent the men outside are, they are here to lie to you, teach you some truths, and then never see you again.
Lin Huiyin : Extramarital affair is two sick people. They thought they had encountered good medicine, but in fact they encountered anesthetics, but once the effect of the medicine is over, it hurts more than before. Maybe they will encounter the fatal Hedinghong.