I remember there are two particularly heartbreaking words in "Decent": breaking up should be decent, no one should be sorry.
There is also someone in my circle of friends who has taken screenshots of this song. However, There is no such decentness in life. Most breakups are noisy, and in the end they block each other, and there are many people who even hurt each other. Breakup shows character. High school classmate Lin Jie once complained to me that no matter what she does, her boyfriend will ignore her. Once, she was under great pressure in the exam and wanted to get some comfort from her boyfriend, but the other party said nothing. Lin Jie found from many things that her boyfriend's heart was not at all with her. They argued about this matter many times and coordinated it, but in the end they still couldn't do it.
Later, Lin Jie took the initiative to break up with her boyfriend.
Later, I asked Lin Jie if you have done anything to hurt each other after breaking up.
She shook her head and said seriously: doesn't, it's the kind of people who are together and parting well. After talking, there is no need to do anything to hurt the other party. If you don’t love, you won’t love it anymore, and you won’t care so much.
I have also seen couples who hurt each other.
The couple did not delete each other's WeChat and would deliberately live a good life in their circle of friends. Later, when the boy talked to his friends about girls, he would tell others some of the secrets between them as jokes.
I really want to say, can you not tell others the other party as a joke after breaking up? This is the most basic morality of being a human being.
I saw a passage online:
If a person has a relationship, don’t reason. There is no reason between lovers.
Since there is no reason, there is no right or wrong. There is no so-called sorry or sorry. Why do we still hurt each other after breaking up?
Goodbye, just a stranger.
Just love it hard.
A friend told me after breaking up that she and I have met at least, at least loved her.
Maybe this is already a lucky thing. Compared to never meeting and never falling in love, what is the difference between breaking up?
Once upon a time, my friend and that boy were also in love. My friend kept thinking about how to become the person who could be the girl who was riding colorful clouds in her heart, but in the end, she turned into the person who was on the blacklist.
may be blamed, but we were all too immature at that time and didn't know how to manage a relationship. We squandered a relationship without scrupulously and never realized that the thing about feelings is also limited.
When we find out that there is not much love left, it is too late to turn back to save it.
Perhaps, all the arrangements in the world have their own reasons. Thank you for letting me meet you. Maybe you can only stay with me for a while, maybe we are destined to miss it.
I remember our first encounter.
I remember that we met too late at the beginning.
Remember those days we had a sweet beginning.
Later we enjoyed each other's beauty, but found that life is not just love, but also many trivial things. They will destroy our beauty and our love. In the end, the two people who once loved deeply can only become passers-by.
There may be many types of love breakups. I want to mention a more common reason for breaking up here: "take it for granted", which is a common thinking pattern for men and women in love.
Many problems are not problems, but because there is less idea of considering the other party.
leads to more and more misunderstandings. The last one does not keep the other, and the other one does not say it, it will be cold.
No matter what, thanks to the boy who accompanied me to grow up. I know we missed it during each other's growth.
That can only send you my sincere blessings. Time flies, and the days must continue to pass. No matter how we look back, life will always push us forward.
It seems that the older you grow, the more chaotic and anxious you grow, the harder you will be tolerant of being mean in life. But you have to understand that you are a painkiller in a panic, and only you can help yourself get rid of pain and grow.
There will always be someone in the future to spend your life with you, and he is now coming to meet you non-stop.
There will always be a day when you will meet a true love.
You can say something to him: Although the future is uncertain, I am willing to accompany you to eat dirt.
wishes.
