Storyteller: 37-year-old Ms. Kang
Actually, I really long for love and look forward to getting married. But I waited and waited until I was 37 years old, and I haven’t waited for the ideal type in my heart.
There are also people chasing me, but none of them meet my criteria for choosing a spouse.
Life is so long, I don’t want to settle down.
I am still very confident about my appearance.
Fair skin and delicate facial features, practice yoga frequently, and maintain a good figure. Many people think I am about 28 years old.
I also have a decent job, doing business sales in a large company, with a monthly income of about 8,000-10,000.
I also rely on my own ability to provide a 68-square-meter small two-bedroom apartment and a 130,000-yuan car.
I pursue exquisiteness in life, so I live a very high-quality life.
Because I have good conditions, I am more cautious about choosing a spouse and have my own ideas.
First, it has a high appearance, which makes me feel moved when I see it for the first time.
Second, have a house and a car, and the monthly income is more than 20,000 yuan.
In the eyes of others, my requirements are very high and unrealistic.
They say that men who can meet this requirement often have no shortage of young girlfriends. How could you fall in love with me in my thirties?
Even my parents said that my requirements were too harsh.
said I am almost forty years old, and I can find someone who doesn’t like me and is willing to marry me.
…I don’t agree with their statement.
I am pretty good, of course I have to find a man with a good appearance that can match me.
What's more, who doesn't like handsome guys and beautiful girls!
The man that can make me moved is naturally the person I like. Only by being with the person you like can you be happy.
Could it be that I have become a married person who just wants to live a life without blushing his face and never beating his heart?
This kind of marriage will not be happy, but will only be in chaos because of despising the other party.
As for the second item, I think it is normal.
I can buy a house and a car even if I am a woman. If the other party wants to get married, he must have a house and a car.
Besides, I don’t have any rigid regulations, how big the house must be and how expensive the car must be.
As for income, I can earn 10,000, so it is normal for him to earn twice my salary.
If the other party does not have a high income as me, or the income is similar to that of me, then he will be inferior and will not find the self-esteem and strength of being a man. Once days like
are long, they will lose confidence more and more, which will gradually affect the quality of their married life.
I have been on a blind date for three years, met many men, and there are several people I am very satisfied with and want to continue to develop.
However, no matter what I like or not, they all said that my conditions were too excessive and they were unwilling to continue to develop with me.
Although I will be disappointed and anxious, I will reflect on whether my requirements are really too high?
, if you think about it carefully, I really can't lower the standard. Once
is reduced, it is contrary to your own principles and your quality of life will be greatly reduced in the future.
Instead of being depressed in the future, it is better to be single in high profile from the beginning.
Actually, I am also very depressed now. Compared to those who ask for hundreds of thousands of gifts as soon as they open their mouths, they want big houses and luxury cars, and they have to take charge of financial power after marriage.
requires the man to do housework, and then list dozens of women who require it. My requirements are already very low, only two.
And I don’t want the bride price; two, don’t want the man to take care of housework; three, don’t care about his salary; four, won’t interfere with his private time.
But despite this, why is there no man willing to marry me? It's too difficult for me!
