The person you are thinking about is not you, but someone else. What kind of feeling is that?
Recently, an internet celebrity, her husband whom I missed, was with other women on her back.
Because of work reasons, the two people are in different places and can only see each other once a year.
Just once this year, sometimes I can’t see her because her husband makes excuses not to go home, but goes to accompany a third party outside.
For eight years, I met four times in total. One person took on the burden of taking care of the entire family, and one person pulled the child until he was six years old.
can be said to be hardworking, virtuous and kind.
On ordinary days, for her, there are only two things, she is looking forward to meeting her husband and taking care of her family.
But the end result is that her husband betrayed her, hurt her, completely ignored her efforts, and trampled on her feelings.
The biggest sorrow for a woman is that she is entrusted to be non-human.
You gave your whole heart, but he didn't take you to heart at all and hurt you in the most disgusting way you are.
You are looking forward to him going home, but he embraces others; you are waiting for him to celebrate his son's birthday, but he is having fun with others.
No matter how hard you work and excellence, no matter how much you give, in the eyes of those who don’t love you, you are worthless.
For a person who doesn’t love you, he never thinks about you and will not feel sorry for you at all.
So, leaving the person who doesn’t love you is the greatest love for yourself, so that you will not be hurt by unworthy people.
In fact, there are traces to follow whether a person doesn’t love you. A person who doesn’t love you will have these traces when they get along with two people. When you encounter someone who is not good, you must learn to stop the loss in time.
lies constantly and often deceive
A person who truly loves you is sincere whenever he is.
Every word you say to you is the truth, the truth in your heart.
When facing you, you are a sincere heart from beginning to end, and you have never lies or deception.
If someone doesn't love you, especially if you already have someone else outside, you will be lies to you, and you will keep covering up a lie with lies.
Most of the people who don’t love you are lies and deceive you. Behind the lie
is that there is something hidden from you, perfunctory and betray you.
In this way, he has time to be with people outside.
The internet celebrity husband deceived her and said that he gave his salary to his mother, but in fact he gave it to a third party. She has to take care of her children alone and earn money to support her children and herself. The hardships and fatigue of life are borne by herself.
The internet celebrity husband deceived her and said that the unit did not take a vacation, but actually went to accompany the third party; deceived her and said that she needed to go back to work after the vacation, but she ended up going to accompany the third party again.
In fact, a person who is insincere can be felt from his eyes and eyes.
It’s just a lot of times when women themselves are unwilling to admit it and comfort themselves. Men are sincere to themselves, without deceiving or sorry for themselves.
When you find that the other party starts to lie and starts to deceive you, you should understand that he no longer loves you and is likely to fall in love with others.
Indifferent, don't care about everything,
Where is a person's love; his heart is where.
A person who loves you will naturally care about you because he misses you in his heart.
Even if it is thousands of miles away, it will care about your affairs and will give you concern.
But a person who doesn't care about you, never asks about your affairs, and ignores your state, just don't love you at all, and he doesn't have you in his heart.
Are you hard or tired? He doesn't care, but he doesn't care. He doesn't care. Whether you are easy or not, he never takes it seriously.
How are you doing and how you feel, it seems that you have nothing to do with him.
You handed yourself to him, and you entrusted him for your whole life, but he treats you with a state of "no matter, no matter how you are, and you are hanging up high".
It’s like you, you have no connection with him, let alone anyone who is his.
Indifferent and not asking about everything is his attitude towards you. Behind the attitude of
is an ignorance, an indifference, and a heartless heart towards you.
deliberately lost contact and did not answer the phone
There is a very interesting phenomenon. Once a person changes his mind, he will start not answering the phone, not replying messages, and deliberately ignore you.
The internet celebrity exposed himself that on his son's birthday, he sent countless video calls to his husband, all of whom were ruthlessly hung up. It was just to let the husband give his son a birthday wish, but it was so difficult and he couldn't get a response.
No matter it is a phone call, a video call, or a text message, it will not be replied.
deliberately lost contact, one is because he is unwilling to pay attention to it, and the other is that he may be with a third party, so it is inconvenient to answer the phone. Yours is not yours, but someone else's.
Most of the time, don’t think that the other person is really busy, but in fact he just deliberately ignores you.
You are sensible, you understand him, but he uses your kindness to hurt you and thinks you are easy to bully.
mobile phones are always carried. Whoever can’t see the message or who can’t get busy with answering the phone and replying the message is just excuses and excuses.
When you find that the other party is always missing, the phone is not answered, and the message is replied. You should think about whether he deliberately ignores you, and even more about all kinds of suspicious signs of him.
In the world of love, I am most afraid that you will regard it as your hope, but it is the disaster of your relationship. You think he is your peace of mind, but as a result, he only gives you harm.
There are scumbags in what kind of circle, no matter what his identity is.
In this era full of temptation, character and responsibility, responsibility and loyalty are the most rare and valuable.
If a person cannot give you financial support, companionship with distance, or spiritual comfort, then leaving is the best choice.
When encountering a bad person, he will only consume you and drag you down, and he will extinguish all the light in your life.
agrees very much with the saying: "It is better to be alone than to settle with the overly ill people."
For the rest of your life, make a living before you love, and love yourself before you love others.
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Author: Chu Lanqi, a writer who keeps writing.
Wish you to live a clear and thorough life in my words, thank you for your attention.
