Born as human beings, we must be filial. Without parents, we will not be who we are today.
As a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, "filial piety" has been practiced for thousands of years, but there has never been a accurate theory about its standards.
Some people say it is delicacies, some people say it is home-cooked side dishes , some people say it is money and wealth . No matter how much material enjoyment you are, it is better to go home and see it often. Give your parents the most authentic company. Your care is enough to make the latter live a comfortable life.
filial piety Heart is the principle, and filial piety is the obligation. Those who cannot even do these two things will naturally be despised by others.
No matter how moral standards are required or how legal provisions are stipulated, there are still many alternatives, namely Wang Yongqiang.
As postdoctoral of Peking University, his level of education is naturally unquestionable, but he does not even have the minimum filial piety. After completing his studies, he directly chose to abandon his adoptive parents. How outrageous is this? Once the
news was released, it quickly aroused condemnation and abuse from netizens. The tag that cannot change is " spits on ".
In his later years, his seriously ill mother sent a "calling" to him, just wanting to see him before he died. No matter how wrong Wang Yongqiang is, his mother is an innocent person after all, and a search for people was launched on the Internet.
Relevant insiders handed the message to Wang Yongqiang, who responded to netizens' doubts in 7 words. After learning about the cause and what happened, everyone gradually changed their views on him, and even felt a little sympathy in their hearts.
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There was a patient lying on the bed of the hospital in Changzhou . Her name was Guo Qiaodi. She was in front of the camera with an oxygen tube inserted in front of the doctor. According to the doctor, she has not been around for a long time, but her son has never shown up and has not even paid medical expenses. She has been missing for 20 years and it is hard to imagine that there is such an unfilial person.
Everyone wanted to help her, but she was really willing but not able to do so. The reporters present immediately stepped forward to ask.
Guo Qiaodi's wife replied that her son was named Wang Yongqiang. has always been excellent since childhood. Later, she became a postdoctoral fellow at Peking University . She also married a girl from an extremely good family. Later, she went to Japan and had no news about .
Now that the mother's life is approaching the end, she wants it but wants it but her personal wish: meet the child .
Everyone is suppressing the anger in their hearts, but it doesn’t make much sense to investigate the cause of the matter. The only thing they can do is to satisfy the wishes of the elderly.
Related media immediately wrote an article, mobilizing forces to search for people, thinking that there will be good results, but who would have thought that there will be a 7-word reply from Wang Yongqiang: It is difficult for honest officials to make up for family affairs .
From the perspective of the bystander, this must be something in his words. Is there anything in his heart that is difficult to express?
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Wang Yongqiang was born in 1969. His parents are authentic farmers and his family conditions are very average.
The poor children were in the early stages of their family. Wang Yongqiang understood from an early age that studying is the only way to change his destiny. He worked harder than anyone else when he was in school. He ranked among the top in every exam. Isn’t this a true child?
Due to lack of financial abundance, parents asked Wang Yongqiang to drop out of school and work in farming .
But he was unwilling to be ordinary in fate. I went to make money when I had no money to go to school. At first, I just picked up some scraps. Later, the acquisition of various scholarships directly affected the cost of going to school. Seeing that the parents agreed to his request to continue studying.
After graduating from junior high school, Wang Yongqiang's idea of studying was blocked again, and I can't imagine his mood at this time.
Later he found the principal who was the corresponding junior high school student who was promoted to junior high school, who agreed to Wang Yongqiang's school requirements with excellent grades.
In the eyes of parents, Wang Yongqiang is a "rebellious son" and he will complain at home from time to time. 's family conditions are so difficult, and he still doesn't know how to save money and expenses. He has to learn in this way.
He was a little scared and even started to escape, including living at his uncle's house after school.
Wang Yongqiang did not disappoint others' expectations. After graduating from high school, he was admitted to Suzhou University with excellent results. He thought that his parents would be proud of it, but he never thought that the latter still did not change. Wang Yongqiang embarked on the road of part-time work and study again .
doesn’t have to ask for money, and the parents have to ask him for money.
At that time, there was an anti-meal subsidy for going to college, which was around 4 yuan a day. After Wang Yongqiang's parents learned about it, they asked their son to send all the money home, otherwise they would go to school to find him.
He followed the two, saved money every month, and sent all meals back;
There was no limit on his academic career. After graduating from undergraduate, Wang Yongqiang continued to study for graduate school. With the rarity of talents, the meal expenses of are gradually increasing, and 4 yuan is gradually becoming 72 yuan .
In that era, this was a considerable expense. He was afraid that his family would ask for it again, so he concealed it.
Every time I call, I always ask for money. If I don’t give it to me, I will be scolded by my parents, such as what’s the use of raising you so much, etc.
Wang Yongqiang has never resisted. After all, this is his biological parents. The latter changed his conditions during his sophomore year and asked him to arrange his brother to Suzhou University.
This is a school, not a farmland, and no one has the ability. After Wang Yongqiang refused, he was scolded by his parents again;
After graduating from graduate school, Wang Yongqiang continued to pursue a doctorate. This time he chose Beijing because in that era of underdeveloped transportation, it was very far from his home.
During the , Chinese Academy of Sciences, during the , the parents continued to "suck blood". either arranged work for their family or sent money home. He still obeyed the words of both ;
After graduating from doctoral degree, Wang Yongqiang continued to apply for a postdoctoral degree from Peking University, but his family still did not stop exploiting him, but instead thought that this was all right.
Wang Yongqiang slowly developed this habit. Even though he had a family later, he still kept sending money to his home .
It is understandable to be filial to parents, but this has affected the normal livelihood of the family. The two of them are just quarrels every day, and not long after, the marriage also came to an end.
This time, Wang Yongqiang was completely out of contact. 20 years had never received any call from home . Later, he even cancelled the original contact information until his mother was critically ill and allowed him to reappear on the Internet.
No one can understand his inner pain, so he left a reply saying "It is difficult for a clean official to make a decision"...
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Filial pity is certainly a standard for being a human being, but it must not be tied with a bond of affection.
Wang Yongqiang was indeed practicing this characteristic at the beginning, but his parents were in exchange for more demands. If the latter could always maintain the minimum respect for the children at the beginning, there would naturally be no future.
Parental affection can always warm people's hearts, , but if love is bound, it only brings harm .
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