Especially for girls working in big cities, it is becoming increasingly difficult to find a partner. More and more girls are single in big cities, and many girls are in their 30s and have no match for them.
After the boy graduated from college, he worked hard to find a job and save money to buy a house and a car. They have almost no time and energy to talk about love with little girls. One is that many male college students are unsatisfied in their work, have great pressure, and have no conditions to deal with them.
Male college students have little salary per month. They go to rent a house and spend their daily lives, and even the consumption of falling in love is difficult to support, let alone buy a house and a car. That is all future. Although parents have some savings, it is a drop in the bucket.
Even if these male college students fall in love with a female college student, they sometimes become discouraged because the conditions are limited and they are unwilling to waste their feelings.
. Some female college students do not pursue her on their own initiative, and rarely have time to consider personal issues when working. Even if they occasionally consider it, the other party has no house or car, and even if they get together, it is difficult to survive, so they give up their thoughts.
As time goes by, it becomes more and more difficult to get along with a partner. Therefore, in big cities, there are more and more elderly leftover women. The children of several of my colleagues all work in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen. The girls are highly educated, highly paid and beautiful, but their parents are worried about their children's marriage. They are all in their 30s and have never had a partner.
My neighbor's girl is very beautiful. Her name is Wen Yan. She works in Shenzhen. She graduated from 985 university. She is 39 years old this year. She works in a company and is the company's business department manager. When she came back last year, I asked her how old the child was, and she smiled: There is no match for her yet!
I was a little surprised. Why is such an excellent girl nowhere to be a partner? Isn’t there any boys to chase after her?
She said humorously: It’s so annoying, why isn’t anyone chasing me?
In fact, what Wen Yan said was not a joke. She said: I am usually busy with work, and I have no time to consider my personal emotions. Occasionally, my colleagues introduce one to me, and I don’t bother to pay attention to the conditions.
Like your own conditions, basically no boy will take the initiative to chase you, and he will hide from you from afar. Many people think that beautiful girls, with education and good jobs, will have many boys to pursue. In fact, on the contrary, few boys pursue such girls. One is pursuit and being rejected, and the other is that it is too cold to be at the height. He recognized finding a girl with a beautiful college degree and was unwilling to pursue a girl like me with a "three highs" because they could not control it and could not afford to support it.
There are many girls with good conditions who will sigh: I'm so angry that I'm not chasing me. They can't put down their posture and take the initiative to chase boys. Over time, they become older single women. Older leftover women in their 30s look for young men in their 20s. They have to hesitate or feel that they are too old and basically won’t agree. Find a man older than you. Such men basically have families, and those without families are basically widowed or divorced. If a girl finds a man like this, she can't raise her head in front of her colleagues and friends, so she will sigh that there is no man chasing her.
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