We often say that love does not matter whether it is age or stage or situation. What does this sentence mean?
Its correct explanation is: "No matter how much the age difference is between you, as long as it is true love, age should not become your gap; no matter what your situation is, whether you have a family or not (but you have to handle the current family well), you have the right to choose love!"
But this so-called love must be based on the premise of true love and being able to love!
So what is "true love"? True love means not to destroy others and consider the other person's reputation.
What is "can love" again? That means that only those who are able to give each other a home or a name are able to love each other, and only those who are truly love can love each other.
However, although this is the reason, some people always use "freedom of love" to do things that steal, and use meeting too late to cover up their bodies!
And there are a few "warriors" who really didn't understand the fact that they were actually greedy for others. They also called him "I really loved others." For example, the warrior below can cry to his wife after getting drunk and telling him that he loves the other person very much!
Ms. Zhou and her husband have been in love for six years, married for four years, and their son is two years old.
When the child was three months old, Ms. Zhou discovered the fact that her husband betrayed her again. The other party was her husband's colleague.
After knowing this, Ms. Zhou did not make trouble with her husband this time because she felt that the child was still young after all, and divorce would be a damaging problem.
But this matter planted a knot in Ms. Zhou's heart, so she agreed to a young colleague who had liked her for a long time to go to the movies and have dinner together... Anyway, she had done everything she should do.
In the happy attitude of everyone, Ms. Zhou did not intend to divorce her husband, and later they had a child.
However, just two months ago, Ms. Zhou's immigration was finally approved, and then she told her husband that she would leave after a few days! My husband said, "Can you leave later?"
Ms. Zhou said no, after all, all the jobs have been found there, and we will divorce the marriage before leaving, and I am afraid of delaying you.
Honey husband disagreed, and Ms. Zhou did not force her too much. She thought to herself, she still has two months to work there, so she is not so strong that she is about to leave.
However, in the past two months, Ms. Zhou found that her husband began to lose weight, insomnia, and drank alcohol, and her husband usually doesn't drink alcohol.
The day before yesterday, my husband got half drunk and talked about life with Ms. Zhou. Her husband asked her: "What is the meaning of life, why is life so that people can live?
Ms. Zhou suddenly asked: "Are you broken up? "
Unexpectedly, my husband suddenly collapsed when he heard this sentence, and then cried bitterly, "I really love her, but why did we meet too late! ”
Then he told Ms. Zhou that the other party was 26 years old and loved him very much, but because the child was still too young, he chose to be responsible.
Ms. Zhou said after hearing this: “Yes, I love him like you, but I don’t look like you. If I love him, I still have to be responsible for the child and my life! So, I endured you for two years and chose to break up with him. You are just a coward. You are a decades old and still live by feelings. Let’s get divorced. You should think that I am taking revenge on you in the past two years. In the future, I have to face my life well and love myself well. I hope you will live a good life too."
The next day, the husband took the initiative to tell Ms. Zhou that he had drunk too much last night and said nothing, and he would never agree to the divorce. But when Ms. Zhou took out a recorder to play the recording and told him that she had bought a total of six recorders and a few were hidden, her husband had to agree, because Ms. Zhou also told him by the way that if he did not agree, she would take the recorder to find his colleagues and relatives, so he had to agree. After all, he was also a person who wanted face!
Conclusion:
If you encounter betrayal in your marriage, you should leave some room for yourself and fight for benefits for yourself. This is what I should do, and I also appreciate this attitude; but I think it is not worth it if a person takes revenge by destroying one thousand and hurting others for eight hundred. Therefore, I hope that when friends encounter unfair things that make themselves angry, they must first learn to love themselves, because impulsive and depraved response methods are both hurting others and themselves.
