has always been a topic that many children avoid.
Under the overwhelming publicity of the Internet, it seems that children must shoulder the burden of their family when they grow up and cannot make any mistakes.
Even if you can’t breathe a sigh of relief!
, but I, who had no great skills, completely disappointed my mother.
My mother is a single mother, and she has worked hard to raise me up for more than ten years.
central acid cannot be described in words. Over the years, my father has never paid a penny of child support.
is fine, but the only thing that makes my mom happy is that my dad and I have completely lost contact and have no involvement anymore. This made her persistence over the past decade get "reward" .
Since the first day of graduation, I have never spent money at home.
My mother's parenting task has been completely over. After stepping out of school, I finally breathed a sigh of relief. I even quit my job and waited for my 50-year-old retirement.
It’s a pity that she has no pension! It's just about to reach retirement age.
My mother planned an elderly care plan is: After I graduated from college, I gave her two thousand yuan a month, and it increased with the rise in prices, and she kept giving her elderly care to the last moment.
Before society could beat me, I was dizzy by my mother.
I carefully calculated the calculations. From 50 to 80 years of life expectancy, excluding inflation , then 2,000 yuan a month, and add medical treatment money...
raising children is too cost-effective. I want to marry a wife and give birth to ten or eight.
After working for two years, I joined the blind date army in society.
No house, no car, no deposit, but with the age of only 24 years old, Don’t bully the young man who is poor, he still successfully defeated a group of three-no men who are in their 30s who don’t bully the middle-aged poor man and successfully married a three-no girl.
I have saved 70,000 yuan for two years.
This money is really saved from the gap between your teeth.
Working overtime in the workshop, I was the first to rush to register just for the salary of dozens of yuan.
has been working for two years and I bought the clothes in college. I never want to add a new one for myself.
In the end, I paid 70,000 yuan, my wife paid 20,000 yuan, and raised 90,000 yuan. We bought a small two-bedroom apartment on the edge of a third-tier city.
15, I successfully got my own home, my wife married me naked, and I handed over all my salary cards.
At the beginning, my family was still working. I worked hard every day and still gave my mother two thousand yuan a month.
In 2016, the money was not available.
is not only impossible to get it out, but even the daily expenses cannot be maintained.
Fortunately, I didn’t buy a house with a maximum of 70 square meters, and I repay the loan of 1,500 yuan per month.
My wife resigned and took care of her children at home. The whole family, my monthly salary of 5,000 yuan has become the only source of income.
If I give my mother two thousand a month, then my whole family will not be able to drink the northwest wind? I stopped the money of
on my own initiative.
My mother was unhappy, she came to a conclusion: My son married his wife and forgot his mother, and he didn't even give her pension money. How did she look up in the village?
Furthermore, my mother has raised me for many years and has no savings in her hands. In the past few years, although she has not spent 2,000 yuan a month in rural areas, she has very little money to save.
After I didn't give her pension money, she completely lost her source of income.
My mother ran to the city and had a big fight with me, and cursed everything bad to say! I have seen this look countless times since I was a child.
She has a strong personality all her life and has never lost quarrels in the village.
I have been holding my breath in my heart for those years, and I want to live a look for the villagers.
Especially after I got into college, my mother completely breathed a sigh of relief.
She is born in the sixties and still remembers that she can shine through the age of when she gets into college and is rich.
, but I was incompetent, completely disappointed her.
Graduated from college does not mean that someone will hire me to work with a high salary.
I, a college student, went to work in the workshop assembly line just because my salary was high.
My mother's quarrel ended with my wife fighting with her on the ground.
My mother lost completely. At the age of her, she is no match for my wife at all.
Usually, looking at the soft and weak wife, she scolds people for being good at fighting, and is even more incomparable.
After knocking away the mother-in-law who came to ask for money, she told me that she was going to get a divorce and half of the house was sold for one person. She didn’t want the child!
I was my grandson for several days before I let my wife calm down.
My mother made ten calls in the village a day, and when they were answered, they were all scolding my wife.
To be fair, I decided not to give money, but my mother threw all her anger on my wife.
How could the child she raised with worked hard to "be wrong"?
The economy is getting more and more stretched. I never knew that it would cost so much money to raise only four legs gold swallowing beast !
I advised my mother to go out and find a job, and she doesn’t have to help me, as long as she can support her.
My mother was unhappy. Every time she mentioned this, she would scold me for being unfilial on the phone.
She always repeats the sentence over and over again: I worked hard to raise you, so you have to support me! I am now at the age of enjoying myself, so why do I have to go to work?
I will tell her seriously every time: Because your son is incompetent, so you have to go to work!
I understand where my mother's obsession comes from.
In the countryside, there are too many orphans and widows who are bullied. Now she just wants to prove that the villagers can show her that she can raise her son and rely on her son to enjoy her happiness. She is much better than the elderly in the village who are still working hard to make money in their sixties and seventies!
But I really don’t have the ability!
The salary is 5,000 yuan, and if you remove the mortgage property, water, electricity and heating, there are less than 3,000 yuan left.
How to raise this big family?
My colleague, a young man who has never worked overtime, is my age.
We are paid the same salary. He often changes his mobile phones, often buys new clothes, and even a computer can buy 20,000 yuan.
just because he has a good couple.
His father took out half of the money he earned every month to pay his mortgage.
The mother went to help take care of her grandson. Although the elderly only had more than 1,000 yuan per month, they didn’t have to pay extra money to support their children if they had this money.
His wife went to work after her maternity leave because she had a mother-in-law taking care of her children.
Family of five, four people earn money to raise children and pay mortgage payments.
And I, a family of four, earn money to support my child and pay the mortgage.
is really out of my mind.
After breaking my mother's living expenses for a year, she really had no choice but to go out to do odd jobs to earn money, one thousand five a month.
I don’t have money and I will starve to death in the countryside.
Now, my mother called me unfilial when she took the opportunity, saying that if she had known to throw me to my dad, she wouldn't have suffered so many years!
Many times, I have no choice.
can’t make money, so what can I give to her for her retirement?
My mother is no longer young, with gray hair and hunched body. Is it because I did the wrong thing to ask her to go out to find a job to support herself?
-The end-
Author | Emotional things
narrative | Friends around you
I, a college student, went to work in the workshop assembly line just because my salary was high.
My mother's quarrel ended with my wife fighting with her on the ground.
My mother lost completely. At the age of her, she is no match for my wife at all.
Usually, looking at the soft and weak wife, she scolds people for being good at fighting, and is even more incomparable.
After knocking away the mother-in-law who came to ask for money, she told me that she was going to get a divorce and half of the house was sold for one person. She didn’t want the child!
I was my grandson for several days before I let my wife calm down.
My mother made ten calls in the village a day, and when they were answered, they were all scolding my wife.
To be fair, I decided not to give money, but my mother threw all her anger on my wife.
How could the child she raised with worked hard to "be wrong"?
The economy is getting more and more stretched. I never knew that it would cost so much money to raise only four legs gold swallowing beast !
I advised my mother to go out and find a job, and she doesn’t have to help me, as long as she can support her.
My mother was unhappy. Every time she mentioned this, she would scold me for being unfilial on the phone.
She always repeats the sentence over and over again: I worked hard to raise you, so you have to support me! I am now at the age of enjoying myself, so why do I have to go to work?
I will tell her seriously every time: Because your son is incompetent, so you have to go to work!
I understand where my mother's obsession comes from.
In the countryside, there are too many orphans and widows who are bullied. Now she just wants to prove that the villagers can show her that she can raise her son and rely on her son to enjoy her happiness. She is much better than the elderly in the village who are still working hard to make money in their sixties and seventies!
But I really don’t have the ability!
The salary is 5,000 yuan, and if you remove the mortgage property, water, electricity and heating, there are less than 3,000 yuan left.
How to raise this big family?
My colleague, a young man who has never worked overtime, is my age.
We are paid the same salary. He often changes his mobile phones, often buys new clothes, and even a computer can buy 20,000 yuan.
just because he has a good couple.
His father took out half of the money he earned every month to pay his mortgage.
The mother went to help take care of her grandson. Although the elderly only had more than 1,000 yuan per month, they didn’t have to pay extra money to support their children if they had this money.
His wife went to work after her maternity leave because she had a mother-in-law taking care of her children.
Family of five, four people earn money to raise children and pay mortgage payments.
And I, a family of four, earn money to support my child and pay the mortgage.
is really out of my mind.
After breaking my mother's living expenses for a year, she really had no choice but to go out to do odd jobs to earn money, one thousand five a month.
I don’t have money and I will starve to death in the countryside.
Now, my mother called me unfilial when she took the opportunity, saying that if she had known to throw me to my dad, she wouldn't have suffered so many years!
Many times, I have no choice.
can’t make money, so what can I give to her for her retirement?
My mother is no longer young, with gray hair and hunched body. Is it because I did the wrong thing to ask her to go out to find a job to support herself?
-The end-
Author | Emotional things
narrative | Friends around you
