Boys and women reach a certain age, blind dates and love, and marriage is put on the agenda.
If a girl is 25 years old and has no stable partner yet, then the family's urge to get married will begin.
Marriage is one of the conditions for getting a spouse. Although the chance of success is not high, there are still men and women who come and try it.
For some girls, some conditions will be put forward, but some girls do not understand themselves or the overall environment. Not enough estimates of yourself.
For example, if you have an ordinary appearance, you require the other person to have big eyes, double eyelids, height, and figure. These are the minimum external conditions that can be imagined. However, based on your own conditions, what are the chances of success?
For example, if your family is very poor, you should ask the other party’s parents to pay, how much the other party’s annual salary must reach, how many houses you want, and how much square meters the area should reach. Just imagine how the other party has this condition? If the other party has this condition now, he needs someone who can help him in his career. Anyone who meets this condition will do business. Those who know how to do business pay attention to rewards. Where is your reward point?
For example, I live in a distant mountainous area, and there are many local folk customs and very strange. Women cannot go to the table; women cannot interrupt when men speak. This strange custom is everywhere in some places. However, he asked the other party to live in some prosperous areas of Beijing and Shanghai to have a house. So, even if there is, can you adapt?
For example, I can eat spicy food very well, challenge extreme spicy food, and I will be spicy if I don’t have spicy food. But he asked the other party to like spicy food. You must follow your own taste when you eat. Then, in your love, taste is the first, love is the second. So, can you adapt?
For example, if you have a low education, you will stutter, but you will ask the other party to graduate from Peking University , Tsinghua University , graduate from graduate school, and doctoral degree. So, do you think it is appropriate?
For example, if you have a salary of 3,000 yuan per month, you have the potential. Then, all of them are executives at this salary level. Their ideological realm is at the management level. They think about it all day long and coordinate the operation of some basic things. If you don’t understand, you will know that buying clothes, pants, and food will not be able to match it in a word. So, how long do you think such a relationship can last even if it comes?
To sum up, marriage and love must have the most basic match. The best match here means that the intuitive sense of distance should not be too far.
So, many boys and girls, while asking others, examine yourself, what your worth is, and whether you can adapt to the life you ask for. The adaptation here is not how to spend money when you have money, but why do people give you money. This is a very practical question.
Even if you get the money, how much happiness will you feel?
In love, being a good match, knowing yourself and examining yourself will greatly increase your happiness. Why not do it?
