talked with my boyfriend for more than a year, and we met our parents in another place. We broke up because of the disagreement of personality between the two. During that period, we were in a disconnection and contacted again. We had been in contact again for eight months. In the past one day, I found out that he talked about other girls. I felt very sad. I always liked him very much. I was waiting for him when I broke up. I was afraid that he would not get back with me, so I dared to be with others. Some time ago, he said that his ex-girlfriend gave him a green color and came back to me to add my friend. We contacted him again. After a few days, we got back together. The ex-girlfriend he talked about was from his place. He had talked for more than a month. At first, he told me that he had nothing to do with his ex-girlfriend, and everything was taken by his ex-girlfriend, and then said that he didn't do anything with his ex-girlfriend, but later I found a lot of evidence so I asked him He admitted that he had sex with his ex-girlfriend who had been in bed for more than a month. I found out that it was difficult for me to accept it, but I didn't want to lose him. I really like him so I wanted to accept this. But I was afraid that when he made other intimate actions against me in the future, I would think that he and his ex-girlfriend had also done it. I was afraid that I would resist. What should I do?
As the current person of his ex-exe, he is really not qualified to point fingers at his ex.
No matter what the reason was for you at the beginning, since you have broken up, even if you are still inseparable, it is just the identity of your ex-boy or friend.
Since he has such an identity, what qualifications do he have to care about who he met, who he was with, and had sex with him again?
Of course, it is wrong for your boyfriend to lie to you.
However, I can tell you very clearly that As long as that man is not a fool, he will not take the initiative to tell you that he and his ex have done it.
In this matter, a man may tell others, but he will definitely not tell the woman next to him now.
To put it bluntly: Who should encounter a few bastards before meeting their own good man?
As long as they are not messing around, not one-night stands, but really want to be together, even if they go to bed, it is legitimate and there is nothing to be sorry for you.
After all, at that time, you were a friend or stranger who “does not have to exist”. How could he care about so many things?
So, don't worry about it. If you really can't accept it, then don't be together, so as to avoid getting married and letting you talk about this matter.
or, just change your thinking and just think that you just met. So, what kind of emotional experiences did he have before he met you? It has nothing to do with you. Who can take so much responsibility for future things? Especially emotional issues.
Of course, if you really have a cleanliness in your heart, then forget it! After all, even if you get married, you may still not be able to swallow this and will always give it a try.
But for him, it is not a mistake. You can apologize to you once or twice, but if you say too much, he will think you are ignorant!
