I once thought that meeting love means meeting happiness, but I didn’t expect that the most hurtful thing was feelings.
It is easy to meet and stay together. In the world of love, it is easy to fall in love with someone, but if you want to be with someone forever, you need to go through some storms.
Falling at first sight may only require a look at the heartbeat at that moment, but to develop into a deeper relationship, you still need to get along in real life.
It may only take a few months for you to fall in love with someone, but it takes longer to forget someone. There are not so many satisfactory things in life, and even feelings will have some hurtful smell.
Life is sad, but it always has to pass. You can't just waste your youth because of the past and be persistent in the happiness you can't get.
The person you really love will not forget with your new love and time. You just keep a person silently in your heart, and then you will never miss it again.
The person who is hurt will actually put her feelings aside and then manage her life well. As long as her life keeps getting better, she will also meet a truly right person in the future.
Time can indeed forget everything, but if there is nothing new in your life, then you cannot get rid of the past.
If you want to completely forget someone, you must cut off all contact with him, and then plan your life again and keep becoming excellent.
01, delete all contact information
If you want to be completely separated from a person, then you must delete all contact information, and from then on the road, the bridge returns to the bridge, and there will be no contact.
However, in the time after the breakup, some people still miss it and put the contact information there. Even if it is really unnecessary, if two people cannot get together, then these contact information are just hurting you.
When you block all the roads, then you can find a new life.
has cut off all contact, and it is to tell yourself in your heart to stop having any ideas.
No matter how beautiful the past is, it is always the past. Some people just stayed in yesterday. The road ahead requires you to walk by yourself.
02, no longer pay attention to the other person's life
If you want to completely separate from the past, then don't take the initiative to care about the other person, and don't go to places you often.
After a relationship is completely broken, you don’t need to pay attention to it, then your life will be lived step by step.
Some people always keep contact information after breaking up, silently pay attention to what happened to the other party, and then accidentally post a like and a message in their circle of friends.
In fact, these behaviors are completely unnecessary. If the previous contradictions can be resolved, you will not separate from each other after that.
There is really no need to doubt yourself when dealing with those who have changed their minds. You have to believe that you are confident enough and you should meet better people.
Some exes should always live in the past. If you disturb them blindly, it will cause unhappiness in your life, and if the other party sincerely disgusted you, they will still look for you.
Love yourself is the beginning of lifelong romance. Only by learning to let go can you get more.
Dear friends, if you encounter unhappy things, then you must learn to let go and not let your emotions fall into sorrow. Only when you keep moving forward and becoming better can you encounter a better future.
author, Ran Xia Yingzi, a freelance writer, focusing on self-media operations, writing and live broadcast entrepreneurship, welcome to follow and consult.
