Colleague Xiaoluo (pseudonym) suddenly resigned a few days ago. I heard that I went to a shopping mall to work.
Xiaoluo is usually very diligent in work and has a good relationship with other colleagues. Many of them are her best friends. I feel very puzzled by the sudden resignation of
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Not long after, Sensen (pseudonym), who had just been married to her for two months, also resigned.
At first, everyone was still gossiping, it must be that the couple went out to work hard together to make money after getting married.
Later, my colleagues gossiped and found out that the two divorced just two months after they had a flash marriage.
The real reason for divorce is nothing more than an extramarital affair.
And the extramarital affair of this couple is not one party, but both parties have extramarital affair.
In fact, Sensen and Xiaoluo are already second marriage.
and Xiaoluo was the first marriage.
can find Xiao Luo, Sensen should be very content.
But on the contrary, when Sensen got married, he was hit and had a very strong sense of insecurity about the marriage.
Due to the parents' urge to get married, Sensen had to get married again.
After marriage, the two often quarreled because of their strong personality.
Every time I quarrel, Xiao Luo would talk about Sensen's second marriage.
Senshen was short of breath and could only admit defeat.
But men value dignity the most after all, and they can’t get it at home, so they naturally have to look for it outside.
As a result, I met a female netizen outside and started an extramarital affair.
paper can't keep the fire.
Xiao Luo immediately discovered her husband's "abnormality".
But she didn't have an attack right away because she had just gotten married for a while and this happened.
If a quarrel starts, it will either be divorced or make people laugh.
She chose to endure and also chose to give up:
In Xiaoluo's heart, a second-married man like Sensen went out of marriage when he got married and took marriage lightly, and there was no need to make it back.
As a result, Xiao Luo also started to meet male netizen Ito . Ito is a typical rich second generation. He knows that Xiao Luo is a married woman, but he is still attracted by her beauty.
Ito once swore to Xiaoluo that as long as she divorced, she would marry her immediately.
Xiaoluo's "choice" is not only to seek psychological comfort for herself, but also to find a way out for her future divorce with Sensen.
Soon, Sensen also discovered Xiao Luo's "abnormality".
However, Sensen did not bear it, but instead had a trump card with Xiaoluo.
As a result, both sides suffered losses and finally had to divorce.
After the divorce, the two of them were afraid that the matter would be exposed and they would have adverse effects at the unit.
So, they all chose to resign.
But when Xiao falls in front of Ito, he mentions the former "engagement contract".
Ito smiled and said:
I have never played a married woman like you, just try it out, don't take it seriously!
1 Is it broken? Is it a repair? Or throw it away?
People of the parents' generation, if things are used up, they will always practice them again and again.
The same is true for marriage, and there are constant quarrels or conflicts, but there is never a divorce.
Because they feel that feelings are like old furniture or devices, and if there are broken places, they will always be repaired.
To our generation, especially those born in the 1980s and 1990s.
Live in a rich environment, we are used to throwing away bad things.
The same is true for love or marriage. We always feel that the next one will be the best.
However, the next one has become the ex again and again.
Whether it is love or marriage, we are confused. Where is our end?
Faced with marriage and love, we can choose, but we cannot be strict with perfection, because we ourselves have flaws.
Faced with the imperfection of the other half, we must try to "repair" instead of "change".
persevere, maybe the he (she) in front of you will slowly change.
2. A woman cannot afford to divorce.
In marriage, men and women are actually unequal.
After a man divorces, he can find a girl younger than him.
After a woman divorced, she took her children, and even if she had no children, she could not find a boy younger than herself.
is usually a "bigly man" older than himself.
doesn’t mean that finding a partner who is smaller than you will be happy.
But at least, from the starting point, it is indeed lower than that of men.
Therefore, a woman cannot afford to divorce.
For marriage, men can be careless and leave.
And women must be cautious.
You must not make such a choice like Ronaldo and leave a way out for yourself.
