always likes you
Like the wind blows eight hundred miles
No matter how long does it take to return...
Why have you changed?
There was someone who loved to laugh, but suddenly one day she stopped smiling. Everyone asked her, why don’t you smile?
She said, this is the real me.
A group of people looked at each other: Is she changed, or did we never know the real her?
A person who chats with you every day suddenly stopped looking for you one day;
A person who treats you well suddenly treats you one day badly;
A person who treats you well suddenly treats you one day badly;
A person who treats you pretentiously suddenly becomes open-minded about everything.
Once these things happen, people will always ask: Why have you changed?
What is changed?
I remember when I was in elementary school, I especially liked to eat a noodle restaurant next to the Labor Bridge, which tasted good.
But later I went back to eat after graduating from college. The boss was still the same boss, but he was much older, but he just didn't feel that delicious.
I looked back and saw that even the little black dog standing at the door was not the same. What exactly has changed
? It seems that it is really difficult for us to define what has changed.
Two days ago, a girl chatted with me in the backstage. Before getting married, she had a good relationship with her husband. He took good care of her and thought about her everything. She held her in her hand and hurt her.
But after getting married and having children, everything has changed, I don’t do any housework, neither take care of the children nor stay at home, my friend goes out when he calls, especially ignores the family.
The girl had no choice but to let her parents take care of her. As a result, her husband simply moved to the unit and ignored the child.
Even after making dozens of calls, the other party did not answer. As long as you speak, you will always be quarreling.
The girl said, why did he change?
I guess, maybe this is not his change, maybe this is the real him.
I have watched an episode before, and a couple who have problems with their marriage meet honestly in front of the camera.
The woman said with tears in her eyes that before getting married, he followed her everything and gave her countless beautiful promises. After getting married,
, it was not realized.
She was comparing the changes before and after marriage. Before marriage, he accompanied her shopping without a single complaint. After marriage, he either had headaches or stomach discomfort;
Before marriage, she had laryngitis , and he sent medicine to his door without saying a word. After marriage, he threw a sentence "You and me will not be able to get better";
When he was in love, he gave food for three meals a day, and he didn't even wash the bowl after marriage.
The host was surprised and asked the man why.
Finally, the man said something, which surprised the audience: "Actually, I am such a person. I spent a lot of effort chasing her. Now that I am getting married, shouldn't it be my turn to enjoy it?"
When we were young, we all promised to change ourselves for someone.
I remember when I was with my ex, he loved to watch football games. I have watched countless games with him NBA and World Cup. In fact, in the end, I didn’t even know the difference between Messi and Kobe ;
He likes to smoke, and I actually said it’s okay, I can accept you smoking;
Even he said he wanted to marry a virtuous wife, and I said crazy that I could be a virtuous wife and mother.
Now think about it now, I was really a newborn calf and not afraid of tigers.
A beautiful picture suddenly flashed in my mind: a woman holding a baby in one hand and mopping the floor with the other hand smoking a second-hand cigarette, and a man next to me was sitting in the living room watching the game.
, come and save me, what kind of horror movie is this! Yes, I have changed. I don't love him anymore.
But I haven't changed. I still don't like others smoking, watch football, and don't want to be a good wife and mother.
Some people say: Before marriage, men wait for women in the restaurant, and after marriage, women wait for men in the kitchen.
When you are in love, the man is very silent, but after getting married, the man is very silent.
I have never been married, so I don’t know if this sentence is correct.
But I am a person who is good at waiting and enjoying loneliness.
I will not change when and where.
Hope, you don’t want to change for anyone.
You can't change a person and eat spicy food, so don't easily promise that I will accompany you whatever you want in the future;
You can't marry someone who can't cook, wash, and cook, so don't easily say that it's okay;
You can't make life full of surprises and passion for the rest of your life, so don't pull your enthusiasm too high from the beginning.
Many breakups of love and marriages are broken because we overestimate the changes and efforts we can make for love at the beginning, so that we are either too tired or too fake later on.
Actually, I am quite scared, afraid that the people around me will suddenly not be consistent one day and will change.
So, I prefer to get along with people who are as passionate as fire.
If we treat each other with a childlike honesty at the beginning, maybe the time will be farther and the original intention will remain unchanged.
