There is a qualitative difference between men and men. What are men? A man is a specific name given to a woman by a husband: "That's my man!"
Male represents a species: male animals.
Today, I will not discuss other aspects of men and men, but only talk about the changes in the names of men in my country and the variance of male status in recent decades.
1. The era of "I am a man"
If we can name the synonym of "I am a man", the youngest woman must be in her eighties or nineties!
Whenever this sentence is spoken, the fullness of the emotion can be felt by the individual.
"That's my man!" "My man is back!" "Do my man wash clothes and cook for me!" "…!"
What does a series of exclamation marks represent? In addition to the deep emotions, it also reflects the importance and status of men in women's minds.
So in the era when "I am a man", the status of men composed of Tian Heli in women's hearts was extremely important.
A woman's sentence "My man is back!" means having food, clothing, relying on it, and a sense of security!
This shows the importance of men in women's hearts.
2. "I object" era
The term "I object" is widely used and should have started when there is collective labor.
The so-called object is understood by individuals as the object of horizontal view. In the environment where the country advocates equality between men and women, some women who are already able to support themselves have begun to move from the "me man" to the "me object" stage of looking up to the "me object" stage, and what follows is no longer patriarchy, but "comrade" relationship.
Under the influence of the general environment where women do not need to rely on men to live, most men and women formed a relationship of side by side, and then the male family status gradually entered a downward trend.
3. The era of "my husband"
Reform and opening up . The female group is like a spring breeze, and jobs are emerging one after another. More and more women have become Mu Guiying, taking charge everywhere to fight, and then surpassing men with a rapid rise...
. Men are forced to enter a fast-paced and high-pressure survival state. Family is no longer their only harbor, and more focus is on career and how to make money.
The dependence of life weakens, the opportunity to fight side by side decreases, and the relationship between women and men begins to gradually become alienated.
However, women have not completely separated from the stickiness between men and families, so they changed the name of "object" to the name "husband" with gender as the combination.
Of course, the male presence also slipped from the level of "husband" and entered a low period.
4. "Spouse" era
Compared with the previous name, the spouse no longer has the word "I", and the so-called spouse is the mating object.
With the different division of labor in society, the imbalance in the proportion of men and women, and the inclination in welfare, policies, etc., the yin and yang are shifting, and a large reversal has occurred. The trend of women being superior to men is gradually prevalent, and more men are blamed for being "not like a man" or "not a man".
So the name "spouse" has been used by more people.
The so-called animal spouses are seasonal and unfixed, which is the so-called hormonal relationship. When men and women enter the "spouse" era, the stickiness, importance, and binding force of family and marriage have gradually faded away. What remains is the traditional conceptuality and moral constraints for less than half of the people.
5. What will the next name be?
"My man" is about to disappear; "My partner" is already old; "My husband" is no longer attractive; "Spouses" are struggling and sprinting!
What should women use to measure men in the future?
According to new women who have entered realist thinking, I personally think that there are only two categories:
1. Men with financial power in holding money? (Of course there is another very important condition~ Have a good kidney!)
2. Ordinary male?
What do you think should be called the most appropriate one?
