Many people think that the beginning of a relationship is vigorous, so the end of a relationship should be vigorous, just like the one performed in the movie, a grand breakup will occur.
In fact, the disappearance of feelings is often silent, just like water droplets erode stones, changing a little bit every day, and finally the water droplets wear through the stones.
Once a person has some idea in his heart, he may not take any action for the time being, but this idea will slowly grow in his heart, and finally quantitative change will lead to qualitative change.
In a relationship, when a woman has these reactions, she probably already has an external heart. She discovers the problem early and deals with it, which may save a relationship.
1: Reduction of communication
The most important thing between people is communication. Communication is the bridge of communication. It is precisely through communication that various cultures have gradually evolved.
In fact, the same is true in relationships. When a relationship begins, it is often because two young people communicate frequently and share their lives with each other.
In the long run, it will make each other feel like they are involved in each other's lives, and feelings will gradually arise. The smooth communication between husband and wife not only has good relationships, but there will be much less conflicts after marriage.
Once there is a problem with communication, or the other party simply doesn’t want to communicate with you, then there will probably be some minor problems in this relationship.
At this time, actively communicate and solve the problem early can save the crisis. If it evolves to a cold war, and there will be a gap in each other's hearts, it will be difficult to solve it at this time.
2: Disgust and resistance
When you are in love, the two of them will not stick to some minor problems. They both regard each other as part of themselves, so sometimes even if they share tableware, they will not feel anything, but they will feel very sweet.
When meeting, they usually hug each other hard, and when walking, they can’t help holding each other’s hand. These are all manifestations of the good relationship between two people.
Although as time goes by and as the relationship slowly becomes dull, this intimate action will gradually decrease or even disappear completely, love will not disappear.
If the other person begins to dislike your existence while two people get along, and even if you get close to her, the other person will feel uncomfortable and resist having close contact with you.
Don’t think that this is a small matter, it is a normal emotional change. Basically, no matter how dull the relationship between two people is, it should turn like disgust and dislike.
3: Testing and suggesting
Want both of you to love each other as much, which is obviously unrealistic. Basically, one person wants to love the other person a little more.
often has a very embarrassing situation. One of them no longer loves it, but it has not yet been connected with the next one, or they don’t want to bear the infamy and want others to break up on their own initiative.
There will be some tentative words and actions, such as "Ask you what if I am with someone else one day?"
Many people have personal experiences. It has been a few days since their girlfriends asked, but they really were with someone else. It was a pity that I was really a problem at the time.
In fact, this kind of temptation and suggestion appears in all aspects of life. It is not just about asking questions. As long as you observe carefully, you can easily find the clues.
When a relationship moves closer to us, we must learn to grasp it well, but when the relationship leaves, we must also learn to accept it calmly.
In fact, people who are in love or not have sex have long understood that many people just don’t want to believe in reality and are willing to live in their own beautiful dreams.
When you find that your partner begins to reduce communication, or even unwilling to communicate, starts to resist, hate your existence, and begins to test and suggest, then the other party most likely has an external heart.
If you really can't bear to let go, you can try to keep it, but don't stick to it, because it is difficult for a person who has changed his mind to change his mind because he is reluctant to let go.
might as well improve yourself and make yourself better, and then there will naturally be someone to be attracted to you.
