1, Acquaintance, Falling, Marriage,
My ex-husband and I met and fell in love when we were in a master's degree, and after graduation, we were assigned to second-tier cities. I went to work in a scientific research unit, and my ex-husband joined a financial unit.
We are both people who work hard and don’t want to have children too early. When I was 28 years old, I accidentally got pregnant and endured the pain and abolished the child.
When I was 30 years old, both parents couldn't wait and urged us to have children as soon as possible. When my ex-husband saw that all the classmates from the past became parents, he also looked forward to the arrival of this day.
I actively prepared for pregnancy. I got pregnant again at the age of 31. The whole family was happy. Unexpectedly, when I was 4 months pregnant, there was a problem with the child's child's birth checkup, so I had to induce labor.
I hugged my ex-husband and cried bitterly. The ex-husband hugged me and gently comforted me: As long as you are fine, the child can still have another child.
Ex-husband's words were like a sedative injection on me, calming me down slowly. I went out early and came back late, and focused on my work. I had outstanding work performance, but my relationship with my ex-husband gradually became alienated.
2. There is a gap in relationships
Not long ago, a female supervisor named Xiaona was transferred from her husband's company. She divorced for two years and was assigned to an office with her ex-husband.
Xiaona is tall and slender, graceful, and her eyes are even more charming and attractive. Not only is she beautiful, she is also very professional, and has been rated as a model many times.
The ex-husband's gaze at Xiaona changed from admiration to admiration, and Xiaona often looked at her ex-husband with affectionate eyes.
On a month-long night, when I was working overtime all night in the office, my ex-husband and Xiaona went to an appointment to go to the hotel, but I didn't know anything.
One day I worked overtime home and found that my ex-husband was still sitting in the living room waiting for me.
"Why are you not sleeping yet?"
"Wait for you."
"Sorry, I'm busy with work during this period, I've neglected you."
"Let's divorce."
"Why?"
"I fell in love with someone else. She understands me and cares about me."
I walked over and grabbed him in tears: "I will change, will I give me some time?"
"The face of my ex-husband was expressionless, as if I was a stranger in front of him: "It's too late."
3. After the divorce, I found pregnant
I knew that no matter how much I said, it would be useless, so I agreed to the divorce.
After the divorce, I worked harder. More than a month later, I found out that I was pregnant. I was surprised, happy and sad. The child was undoubtedly from my ex-husband.
I hesitated for a moment and dialed my ex-husband’s phone number. The once familiar voice came from the other end of the phone. I trembled and said: I am pregnant, the child is yours.
Time seems to have frozen, and the ex-husband didn't say anything for a minute: We can't go back. If you are willing to give birth to your child, I will give you 120,000 yuan in child support every year, but I will not participate in the child's education, medical care, and other other things. If you are unwilling to give birth to your child, I am willing to compensate 400,000 yuan.
I fell into deep thought and talk about my own situation. My annual income is 180,000 yuan after tax, plus the ex-husband’s support, there is no problem raising children financially. After the child is born, the mother can help take care of her, but the father is in poor health and the family’s financial conditions are not good, so there are still difficulties.
If I don’t give birth to a child, it will not be difficult for me to find a partner, but I am worried that I will lose the opportunity to be a mother from now on. If I had a baby, I might always be a single mother.
But this child is my blood and blood. He can be my company and become my sentiment for love. He will make my life colorful.
I said to the ex-husband on the other end of the phone word by word: I will give birth to the child.
4. More than eight months after the child was born, I gave birth to a daughter. When I was working, my parents helped to take care of the children.
As a single mother, I am lucky, and firstly, I have no financial worries. After the child was born, the ex-husband gave him 200,000 yuan in child support, and later he gave him 100,000 yuan one after another.
Second, my mother is very capable and takes good care of both the children and the family.
Now my daughter is three years old and is a super smiling child.My ex-husband had no ambiguous relationship with me, and later gave birth to a son with Xiaona. He did not care about the other things about the child as he said. On the contrary, he gave more than expected. He took the initiative to give extra money to his daughter's early education, insurance, birthday, and New Year's Day.
The ex-husband fulfilled his father's responsibilities and took time to visit his daughter and give fatherly love, so we did not have any hostility and resentment. He hopes that I will be the most beautiful ex-wife and that he must be the best ex-husband.
As for myself, life is very comfortable. There are several single men pursuing me. Some of them are civil servants, some are corporate executives, and some are doctors, but I have not met a person I particularly moved.
I will not rush to get married, and spend all my time on work, fitness, and beauty. I have sunshine in my heart and beauty. I walk on the road of life because I know how to be simple, how to cherish, and how to be happy, and I will definitely be treated kindly by my destiny.
Huanhuan wants to say that although the ex-husband has a new love during the marriage and touches the bottom line of the marriage, he has not forgotten his duty as a father, fulfilled his obligation to be a father, and gave his children fatherly love.
The heroine is financially independent, her ex-husband is responsible, and her child's childhood is basically very happy.
If the heroine chooses to abort the child, she may be more likely to find a partner with better conditions, but she may feel lost, melancholy, and regretful.
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