Recently, the video of Wang Baochuan digging wild vegetables suddenly became popular, and the advice is that girls should never be in love.
Losing yourself for a relationship and taking everything into consideration will only bring endless harm to you in the end. I am sorry for myself and my parents.
Good love will make you feel respected, understand each other, and resist the storms of the world together. Instead of sacrificing yourself because you like someone, and even endure the wind and rain he brings to you.
Emotion is attracted and maintained by wisdom and means.
If you want to be happy, you must learn to understand the man's heart, rather than being moved by yourself like a moth to a fire.
When you understand a man’s core emotional needs and give it in time when you get along, you will easily grasp the man’s heart.
Everything is about procedures and methods. The relationship between two people also requires skills. Only by knowing how to prescribe the right medicine can you win a man's heart.
Sooner or later you will understand that capturing a man’s heart is not about pleasing him in every way, but about these.
Women admire and appreciate him
Men always have a machismo side and desire to be admired and recognized by their beloved women.
In fact, everyone needs to be affirmed and appreciated, so that they can inspire stronger motivation and confidence, enough to resist the test of life.
Some women hope that their husbands will be , and when they are with men, they use the wrong way to get along with men in accusation and suppression. Men feel frustrated, and they will lose their fighting spirit and confidence, and they will stay away from women.
Some women, on the one hand, give a lot of money to men, but they will complain and blame men for this, and threaten men to change and be grateful. The fact is just thankless and backfire.
will only end up with a lot of grievances and push the man further.
You must understand that men need to be admired and appreciated. Since you choose to be with him, you must tolerate his shortcomings and firmly choose.
He will feel recognized and respected from the look of your sincere admiration and sincere appreciation from the way you are, and will be more motivated to strive and want to defend your feelings.
Women's sense of dependence on him
Women are too smart and strong, and often it is difficult to be happy in their relationship.
Because two people are together, women are independent in everything, and for men, it is a disguised and unnecessarily unneeded. If a woman is too capable, she will appear to be incompetent, which will undoubtedly undermine men's self-esteem.
When you are with a man, you must pay attention to his self-esteem. Only when you give him full respect and understanding will he be willing to protect you.
Smart women get along with men, know how to show weakness, actively give men the opportunity to take care of themselves, and constantly train men to take care of themselves, which will become a habit over time.
A woman who acts spoiled is the best. When you get along with a man, you might as well learn to show weakness and rely more on men. The habit of guiding men to give and think about themselves will often gain unexpected happiness.
Are you willing to lower your head and work like a big bag while complaining about men, thankless? Or are you willing to show weakness and act spoiled and guide men to give their own efforts? I think you have a choice in your heart.
A woman’s trust in him
A woman is sometimes a product of contradiction. She is obviously willing to give everything for a man, but she doesn’t trust him. While regretting his efforts, he also hopes to tie the man with his efforts.
When you don’t trust a man and criticize and criticize men all day long, in fact, no matter how much you give, it becomes a shackle, and men will only want to escape.
actually doesn’t believe that he will be nice to you, doesn’t believe that he will work hard for you, his performance will prove your judgment, and you will get the answer you want.
Since you have chosen someone, you must be firm, rather than doubting and giving, which is contradictory.
Trust is the cornerstone of two people's relationship. You might as well be more firm and give men more trust and understanding, so that they can get along with each other more comfortable and comfortable.
Choose what you like and be firm in what you choose.
Maybe the situation you want has not been achieved for the time being, but give each other more time and more understanding and trust, and the days and feelings will move in the direction you want.
Emotional message:
Like someone and treat him well, there is no problem, but is what you give him what he needs? Whether you lose yourself when giving is all a question that needs to be considered.
Only relying on the love brain and giving without bottom line will not bring happiness.
Good feelings are attracted to each other and maintained by appropriate means. They are from each other.
Smart women are good at understanding men's hearts, meet core emotional needs in a timely manner, easily grasp the seven inches of emotions, and reap their own happiness.
