My third grandfather has never been married in his life, and has no children or children. When I was young, I had the strength to work for the people in my family and make a living. When I get old, I have no place to go, so I can only board my second uncle's house, working for others all day and herding cattle, just like a long-term worker.
When he was in his 70s, he became sick and everyone despised him. Later, he did not receive any good treatment and died in a hurry.
No ceremony was held when he died. He put a simple thin coffin in his arms and carried it to the mountain together to bury it.
This is the result of being single for a person all his life. Although everyone's conditions are better now and their concepts have changed a lot, some people's financial strength is enough to make them live single for the rest of their lives. But being single, without family, without love, without own home, and unable to feel the warmth and the feeling of being taken care of, is not considered a complete person.
A person’s life is the same as crops. Sow seeds from childhood and grow up slowly. During this process, there is a time limit when to apply fertilizer, when to loosen the soil, when to maintain, and when to harvest. The same goes for
people. When you reach a certain age, you have to do the corresponding things. Everyone is like this. Those who do not do what they want to do at a specific age will be considered special people.
So we will see bachelors and single dogs, and we will also see the so-called leftover men and women. These words are at least derogatory, and everyone's views on these people are also different.
A colleague of mine said something before, and I think it is very interesting. He said that he was not married yet at the age of 28, and later he was very anxious to get married. He said that if he didn't get married, everyone in the village felt that he was sick, so in order to prove that he was not sick, he got married.
It is not impossible to live alone for a lifetime, but I think this is really not good.
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