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My wife has passed away. What should I do in my subsequent life? I believe that the elderly who put themselves in their shoes will say their true feelings.
A Ms., 65 years old, I will hide my sorrow in my heart and leave it to time to heal my wounds, just because my children don’t want to see me lonely and helpless. If I express sadness, it will not help but make my children worry about my life. In the rest of my life, as long as I can move, I will not rely on my children. If I can rely on myself for more than one day, I will rely on myself for more than one day. In fact, it is not easy for my children.
People come to this world and no one owe anyone. Children have their lives, and I will not easily disturb their lives. If I have room for choice, I will go to a high-end nursing home without hesitation. As long as I can reduce the burden on my children, I will do my best. Now I live for one day, and I am happy for a day. Seeing the family full of children and grandchildren, my life is happy and fulfilling, I have no regrets. If I wait until I have to leave this world, it would be better to be able to walk more happily.
B Mr., 70 years old, my wish is to be able to walk behind my wife. Therefore, in my wife's lifetime, if I can do more things for her, I will do more things for her, so as not to let go. If I leave early, I will leave regrets. My wife and I have lived most of my life. My efforts are far more than my wife's efforts. However, I have never thought about it. My wife still hopes to be ahead of me.
My wife has poor ability to live independently. If I left early, my wife would be unable to sustain her. In fact, I have already figured it out that when a person dies, he will die early or late. After I support the people who have lived in my life, raise the people I have lived in, and take good care of my wife who has been with me for decades, and I will die without regrets.
C Ms., 75 years old, my wife has been away from me for several years, but I still can't let go of my wife and can't accept other men, so I have no idea of finding a wife again so far. After all, looking for a wife again is not buying clothes. If the clothes are not suitable, you can both return and replace them, and even give them to others.
However, it is complicated to find a partner again. At least you need to consider whether you have a common language. In addition, you also need to see whether your living habits are the same, whether your hobbies are the same, and whether your three views are the same. The other party’s temper and personality need to be measured, and then whether the children of both parties agree. This shows that finding a partner again is not an easy task. There are very few precedents of happiness for the elderly around me who remarried. After marriage, there are many kinds of problems. In the final analysis, I don’t know enough before marriage, which caused a passive situation of dilemma after marriage. Given this, my idea is to live alone, and live whatever you want. It is much better than meeting a petty wife.
Conclusion: No matter who your wife leaves first, the person who stays in the world needs to adjust his mentality, face reality, learn to live independently as much as possible, and then live a long and moderate old age.
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