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Many people know the occurrence of the phenomenon of dying kinship, but may not know why. The reason why we need to dig the root cause is that the phenomenon of dying kinship is not universal for no reason.
1. Nowadays, most relatives are busy with their own lives, and even relatives who were close to each other when they were young will become more and more distant.
The more different the relatives experience, the more they lack common language. After meeting during festivals, they don’t know what to talk about. Apart from polite greetings, there is almost nothing to say. Chatting between each other for the sake of chatting will lead to awkward chat, and in the long run, relatives will become alienated. Although communication methods are developed now, there is no minimum number of contacts throughout the year, only even fewer. Perhaps because the heart is far away, people can't get closer.
2. The development heights between relatives are different, the speed is different, some relatives develop better, some relatives develop worse, and they are not on the same level at present, so they will naturally consciously reduce the number of contacts.
Moreover, with the increase of age, from the initial ignorance to the current transparency, I have experienced the warmth and coldness of human feelings among relatives and the coldness of the world between relatives. Even if the family affection I thought was reliable, most relatives would stand by and watch when they needed help, and some relatives would sarcastically or put in the wrong. Especially when it comes to financial transactions, there are very few relatives who can generously donate. It has to be said that many family ties have deteriorated, so they don’t want to bother most relatives, let alone be troubled by most relatives.
3. The circles between relatives have changed. With new circles established after new circles, old circles after old circles will either be hidden or eliminated. When you cannot integrate into the old circle of relatives, many relatives cannot integrate into your new circle, alienation is not a coincidence, but an inevitability.
Nowadays, many relatives are distributed in different cities, and they lose the value of mutual utilization, so they naturally do not spend time to maintain it. It is completely different from being able to play together when they were young. In fact, when they were young, they accompanied each other and brought happiness to each other, which is still one of the manifestations of mutual utilization value.
4. I don’t know when, most relatives become more and more indifferent and their affection fades. Perhaps most relatives think that contact has gone from meaningless to meaningless, until it is unnecessary.
It is said that the family affection of brothers and sisters can stand the test the most, but since many brothers and sisters have families, their relationship will still have varying degrees of indifference. It is estimated that many brothers and sisters are mainly family-oriented, while the rest of the relationship is relatively secondary.
Conclusion: The phenomenon of severing relatives is very common, which means it is almost normal. In fact, there is no need to make a fuss. Being yourself well is the top priority. You can treat dying from relatives as a sieve. After selecting relatives, you will eliminate the false and retain the truth, so that family affection will be true and pure.
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