1. Don’t expect the other party
There is a saying that there is no hope, there is no disappointment.
is the same on the other party. Many times, we feel that if the other person loves himself, he should do whatever he wants.
This is actually looking forward to the other party. It is obvious that if you expect too much, you will be more disappointed, and then you will start to quarrel.
No one can completely satisfy your expectations, no matter what this expectation looks like.
For example, on your wedding anniversary, you are looking forward to receiving the other party’s gift. There was no result. At this time, there must be disappointment and depression, and maybe you will be angry.
Change the direction, even if you don’t have gifts on your wedding anniversary, is life just enough? There is no expectation, life will be as usual, and if the other party prepares a gift, it will be a surprise.
Therefore, instead of expecting each other, you can keep your life stable.
2. The most important thing is to change yourself
Instead of changing others, it is better to change yourself. Many times, we complain that we live so unhappy because of each other. So, we ask the other party to change and hope that the other party can do what we imagine.
However, this will make us even more unhappy. Because, for many times, the other party can't do it at all.
In fact, we all forgot that the most important thing is ourselves. Only ourselves can be responsible for our lives.
Therefore, instead of expecting the other party to give you a gift on your birthday, it is better to choose a more suitable one to give to yourself.
Only when we turn our attention to ourselves, change ourselves, and satisfy ourselves can we get happiness from the bottom of our hearts.
3. Keep fresh
But, life is what two people live after all. I don’t expect the other party and value myself. How should I maintain the relationship between the two people?
is very simple, keep it fresh.
After being together for a long time, the old couple hold hands like the left hand holding their right hand. The longer you are together, the more familiar you are, the more likely you feel boring.
At this time, freshness is needed. The current advocated life requires a sense of ritual, which is a way to create a sense of freshness. After all, we are troubled by trivial matters of life every day. Occasional flowers, gifts, and big meals can help us get rid of housework and change our mood.
Freshness You can also go for a walk and an outing. Or you will run with the other person in the morning, or you will read a book with you. Taking the time to do something you do less or have not done before will make the relationship between the two of you last forever. After all, we are different in different environments.
The distance between intimacy is 0 to 46 cm. However, how to grasp this short distance is what we need to learn in our lives.
